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LielyMon281
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PathStep 5 Compassion hearts143 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes2 Current upvotes2 Age GroupAdult Last activeFebruary, 2025 Member sinceJune 16, 2018
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How to make Friends??
Friendship Support / by LielyMon281
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July 15th, 2023
...See more Hi, i’m a 20F and i’ve struggled a lot to maintain female friendships ever since I graduated Highschool and i’ve pretty much had only 1-2 friends since graduating. None of the girls are interested in talking to me at my job since we don’t have any similar interests and i’m really struggling with the lack of girl to girl companionship i guess. Does anyone know how i can put myself out there and make some friends at all? I’ll take any ideas
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i don’t know how to get through it (non crisis)
Trauma Support / by LielyMon281
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February 19th, 2023
...See more I don’t know how to forget what he said to me over and over. I don’t know how to forget the words “you are the reason i tried to K/O myself” i feel destroyed inside and i keep going in and out of knowing it truly wasn’t my fault and that it was. i tried my best beforehand to have a communicative friendship and be there for him. i never lied or hid my true feelings but in the end i don’t think that truly mattered. i’m torn apart, everyone is blaming me. i’m being blamed for telling him i don’t have feelings for him and i shouldn’t be taking it to heart but why are so many people against me? is saying that bad? i keep rethinking over to myself i should have gave in just to make everyone happy, to lose myself. would that have been better? i can’t help but be stupid and think i should have lied just to keep the peace between the people in my life just so they wouldn’t control me or tell me something is wrong with me. i don’t know how to let it go.
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