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LindseyinCanada
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PathStep 15 Compassion hearts23 Forum posts63 Forum upvotes19 Current upvotes19 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2018 Member sinceNovember 4, 2018
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Nobody deserves to be hurt
Trauma Support / by LindseyinCanada
Last post
 December 31st, 2018
...See more For anyone out there reading this, remember: nobody deserves to be hurt. Oftentimes, victims who encounter traumatic experiences are subjected to these experiences due to conscious choices made by others. What can happen is that people end up getting hurt, as a result of peoples' decisions. What needs to be emphasized is: nobody deserves to be hurt. There is no reason for people to hurt others. There is no excuse, no justification; nothing. When perpetrators purposefully hurt or harm victims in various ways, it is not the victim's fault. The perpetrator(s) chose these ill actions themselves. If you are a survivor of trauma which has involved being consciously hurt by other people, know and remember that these actions were not your fault. You did not deserve for them to happen to you.
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Inhumane
Trauma Support / by LindseyinCanada
Last post
 November 22nd, 2018
...See more Inhumane These are my ramblings about what happened to me in my life. I have been exposed to the most inhumane treatment for the past three years' time. Unfortunately, I became subjected to ill choices made on the part of others. I never knew something traumatic like this would happen to me. I live in a region where all residents are protected by laws and regulations, no matter who they are. People have engaged in an invasive, inhumane, illegal action of watching everything that I have done in a private place of living, since December of 2015. I have been continually trying to cope with this violating, abnormal situation. I have no idea why people have done what they have done. It is very confusing to myself, and I live in a regulated location in North America, and I don't understand how people could violate one's rights in this way. I have heard about other trauma victims going through inhumane things. I have watched movies which are based on true life stories. These victims have also gone through things which should not happen to a person. I know what it feels like to feel violated, degraded, and humiliated. What happened to me for the past 35 months, is a complete disgrace to a human being. Nobody should have to suffer what I have been through. I am in counselling at the moment, and trying to heal from what happened to me. This action did not have to happen, and occurred as a result of other peoples' purposeful choices, violating my rights. Other people such as my family members, do not feel that what has happened towards me is right. I have to continually remind myself that I did not deserve for such a wicked action to happen to me, and that it was not my fault.
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Have you ever been violated by others?
Trauma Support / by LindseyinCanada
Last post
 October 17th, 2019
...See more Hello everyone, This is a post about being violated and hurt by other people. I know that there are trauma victims in the group, who have been through a multitude of traumatic experiences in their lives. I don't feel that anyone deserves to encounter trauma wherein they are violated or hurt by other people as part of conscious, intentional choices. Here is my story. I went through a certain traumatic incident in 2015 (I prefer not to share details here). After this, I eventually moved to a new city. In this new city, people began doing violating things. They did a wicked action of watching everything that I was doing in a private residence, without having attained my consent. I feel that this is a violating action that they have done, and I am currently in counselling, to recover, and to heal from this invasive, inhumane experience. When I talked to family about it, they said that I am being victimized, that there is a lot of evil in the world, and that people make mistakes. It has been about 1000 days of experiencing this (almost three years' time), and as time goes on, I am still confused about why people are doing this action. Have you ever felt violated by others? Would you like to share your story?
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ABC's Game - Healthy Foods!
Trauma Support / by LindseyinCanada
Last post
 March 10th, 2019
...See more Here is a new game for everyone to play. Using the letters of the alphabet, name a type of a healthy food to eat. Let's Play!!! First Word: A - Apples
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I Am Not My Trauma
Trauma Support / by LindseyinCanada
Last post
 December 14th, 2018
...See more "I Am Not My Trauma" I am not my trauma I am not what I went through I am not a reflection of my negative experiences I am separate from these. I am a whole human being, who has gone through injustices that were the product of the choices of others These purposeful decisions did not have to be made I do not deserve to be violated I do not deserve to be hurt People who cause pain to others through their actions, end up hurting themselves as well Nobody deserves to be violated, or hurt I am a reflection of being my own person I am not what I went through. -from a survivor of trauma
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People Who Do Wicked Things To Others
Trauma Support / by LindseyinCanada
Last post
 November 19th, 2018
...See more Hello everyone, I know many of the victims in this group have been through challenging events in their lives, of a traumatic nature. I am no different. I have encountered wicked actions at the hand of others, since 2015. These people have acted in extremely depraved ways. They started violating my privacy in 2015, three years ago, watching everything that I do in a private house. I feel this is violating, inhumane, sickening, and offensive, as well as violating my rights. I knew about it because I started to suspect things, and then had conversations with five family members about it. They all knew what I was talking about. I talked about it over the phone with them. One of them said I am being victimized, and another person said people have made a mistake in what they have done. Another person said that God will punish these people for what they did to me. I am an innocent person who has done nothing wrong, and yet these people have chosen to invade upon my privacy in a private house from December of 2015 to now. I feel this is extremely wicked, and this action should not be carried out. I suspect that it is illegal. I feel whoever did this deserves to end up in prison. I have been trying to rectify this situation. I have been speaking to government organizations to get support for myself on how to fix this situation, violating my rights. I know people are violating my rights. They also do wicked things such as impersonating me, and fraudulently logging into my Google accounts without my permission. For example, when I was out of town in July of 2018, somebody impersonated me and logged into my e-mail account. Then, they did this again using a Linux computer. I do not own or use a Linux computer. These people are horrible in their actions. I am convinced that they are empty shells of people, bearing no conscience for what theyre doing. If they had any conscience about their wicked actions, then they would have stopped these. But they continue with their wicked actions. It is very shameful. I have many rights, and what people are doing is wrong, and I am trying to go for counselling in order to heal from these peoples depraved actions. I dont know how they can live with doing these harmful actions to others, and its been almost three years time (next month). Can anyone else relate to being subjected to wicked or depraved actions at the hand of others? For anyone out there reading this, I know what its like when people continually do horrible, hurtful things towards you. You are not alone in that.
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