Have you ever been violated by others?

Hello everyone,

This is a post about being violated and hurt by other people. I know that there are trauma victims in the group, who have been through a multitude of traumatic experiences in their lives. I don't feel that anyone deserves to encounter trauma wherein they are violated or hurt by other people as part of conscious, intentional choices.

Here is my story. I went through a certain traumatic incident in 2015 (I prefer not to share details here). After this, I eventually moved to a new city. In this new city, people began doing violating things. They did a wicked action of watching everything that I was doing in a private residence, without having attained my consent. I feel that this is a violating action that they have done, and I am currently in counselling, to recover, and to heal from this invasive, inhumane experience. When I talked to family about it, they said that I am being victimized, that there is a lot of evil in the world, and that people make mistakes. It has been about 1000 days of experiencing this (almost three years' time), and as time goes on, I am still confused about why people are doing this action.

Have you ever felt violated by others? Would you like to share your story?