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LisaAnn2012
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Number of ratings2 Number of reviews2 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJul 26, 2025 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 5 People helped4 Chats8 Group support chats0 Listener group chats0 Forum posts13 Forum upvotes35
Bio

Hi my name is Lisa. I am 36 years old and have a lot of experience in public service. I was a police officer and more recently a detective for 10 years working special victims. While working police work I also volunteered on a fire and rescued squad as a firefighter and advanced EMT. While working as a police officer I decided to go back to school and got my degree in social work. I became a social worker and began my career working as an investigator for child protective services. Because of my extensive criminal investigative history I would always get assigned the most egregious cases. I also worked in a specialized unit called the drug affected infant unit where I worked with moms who were currently using drugs while pregnant. I transitioned out of this role and began working as a treatment foster care licensing worker and adoption investigator.

I have substantial experience with the child welfare system and trauma within the child welfare system. I am a former foster youth, adoptee, former foster parent, former guardian of kin, and adoptive parent of kin. I can appreciate the viewpoints from a lot of different lived experiences who have been in the child welfare system. Due to my lived experiences I’m able to see situations and perspectives from many different lenses. 

i have completed numerous trainings and certifications related to; trauma, vicarious trauma, adoption trauma, childhood adverse experiences (ACE’s), prenatal mood disorders, infant death investigations, secondary trauma, first responder trauma, depression, anxiety, SAFE home studies (adoption home studies), safe families, perinatal mood disorders, adoption competency, Wisconsin child welfare model, investigations practices, certified intake worker, and mitigation of safety concerns to name a few.

I specialize in taking with adoptees. Specifically scenarios like adoptees who are:

  • Struggling with adoption trauma, understanding/processing their emotions surrounding their adoption
  • Struggling with their reunion with their biological families or struggling with their adoptive parents
  • Have over all questions about how to obtain their adoption records
  • How to have courageous conversations with their adoptive families 
  • Who need to understand how their emotions maybe related to their adoption 
  • Plus much more 

Additionally adoptive parents who would like to learn from an adoptee about the voices of lived experience. How to best advocate for their adoptive child and how to be the most supportive and trauma informed parent you can be. 

I also specialize in first responder struggles. Being a first responder for most of my life I have seen it all. The weight of those experiences can get extremely heavy and you can’t just talk to anyone about how you’re feeling because they won’t understand. Plus there has always been a stigma of seeking help as a first responder in fear of losing your job or being put on leave. I like to offer a safe place for any first responder be able to communicate to me without fear of being stigmatized at work and have a safe place to come too to vent and share dark humor. 

I will always sit with anyone who is struggling no matter where they come from or who they are. No matter their background or circumstances. I seek to understand and never cast judgement. I want to support whoever I can because I know what it’s like to be all alone when you you’re lost. 

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Adoptive/Foster Parent Support Thread
Family & Caregivers / by LisaAnn2012
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December 19th, 2025
...See more Hello everyone! I wanted to create a threat to specifically support adoptive parents and foster parents. My name is Lisa. I am a former foster youth, adoptee, former foster parent, former guardian, adoptive parent. Professionally I worked law enforcement for over a decade before I became a social worker and went to child protective service investigations. Due to my significant investigation experience I got the most egregious cases involving children. Eventually I moved to being a treatment foster care licensing worker, and adoption investigator. I opened my own private detective agency where I conduct independent child welfare investigations with the goal to remove any potential bias (conscious or unconscious) from CPS investigations from state and local child welfare agencies. I am considered a subject matter expert in my state for adoption trauma, the child welfare system and out of home care trauma. Due to my significant lived experiences and professional experiences I have the unique opportunity to view situations, struggles, questions, overall wanting general knowledge from many different lenses. I want to extend that support to the 7 cups family. Feel free to reply to the thread or due to the sensitivity of these situations a private message is always welcome. I always respond with kindness, an open heart, an open mind, and seek to understand. I cast no judgement on anyone who reaches out to me and consider it a significant strength. You could be the best adoptive parent and do everything right and your child will still face trauma from their adoption. Navigating their trauma and how you respond will be so important to their growth and development. Feel free to reach out at any time! You are welcome here.
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Adoptee Support-You’re welcome here
Family & Caregivers / by LisaAnn2012
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July 28th, 2025
...See more Hi all! My name is Lisa and I am an adoptee. I have significant experience with supporting adult adoptees who are struggling with adoption trauma, processing their adoption, in reunion with biological family, struggling how to communicate with their adoptive parents, trauma from out of home care, neglect/abuse/sexual assault from their adoptive parents, etc. I facilitate adoption support groups in my state and want to share my experiences here. When I was looking for support to help me process my adoption the resources were essentially non existent. Trying to find a therapist who was competent in adoption trainings or had experience through lived experience was impossible. Despite the need for the need for resources for our community. If you need to talk to someone who can “get it” or can appreciate your emotions/feelings, I’m here. The dynamics of adoption trauma are so complex that a non adoptee could never understand. You could have the best adoptive family and still have trauma. Please feel free to post here or feel free to message me directly. Talking about your lived experience can be difficult and you may not want to publicly share it and that is ok. It’s YOUR STORY. I just want to help you process if you need the support.
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Lisa was an amazing Listener. She has a lot of lived experience that helped guide me to better understand by struggles. I would recommend Lisa to anyone. She is kind, understanding, nonjudgmental, and comes from a place of curiosity. I felt comfortable talking to her about anything. I will absolutely reach out to her again.
I feel much less anxious
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