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LittleBike1907
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What do I do!?
Relationship Stress / by LittleBike1907
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 November 7th, 2019
...See more 6 weeks ago my boyfriend broke up with me. It was very emotional and we were both in tears, the thing of both of us still loving one another but not being compatible (thats his reasoning apparently) Anyway we stayed friends, and by that I mean we have seen each other more now than ever, still saying we love each other, still spending nights together and still kissing etc in the privacy of the bedroom (no sex). We kissed yesterday, very passionately and my heart was racing, I'm still madly in love with him. I want him back so bad. It's starting to take its toll on me, I'm getting depressed knowing that he is moving on (he was on a dating site even though he said he loved me still). I feel like for my own sanity I should walk away but at the same time having him in my life is the only thing keeping me steady right now. What should I do? How can I make this feel ok?
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He says he still loves me!?
Relationship Stress / by LittleBike1907
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 September 23rd, 2019
...See more My now ex boyfriend (25) and I (21) had been together for 13 month and 2 weeks. We had only been back a week from our first full weeks holiday together. We don't live together so this was the longest time we had been un-seperated. Anyway, around 6 months ago I got the contraceptive implant put in, because I asked me to and so I did. I understood why. But the months thay followed my hormones where shot, mood swings, hot flushes...everything. So we began to argue a little bit. He got a friend at work who was a girl, same name as me too, and they seemes close. The implant hormones had heightened my anxiety and I was always having to get reassurance. This was often where the arguments stemmed from...her. we had one argument on holiday about her. Came back and everything was great for a week. Then he decided last minute to change plans with me and see friends instead. Which made me sad and again we argued. 2 days later he meets me outside work, with tears in his eyes and says he loves me and if in the future we could be together he would. But for now he wanted us to split. We have had phone calls each day since, both crying down the phone about loving each other. And he still says that maybe in the futurw we could be together maybe not. Right now I'm a very confused 21 year old that needs some advice. He wants to stay in contact and be "close close friends"
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