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Lolthatswild8446
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Anxious in my Relationship
Anxiety Support / by Lolthatswild8446
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 July 22nd
...See more Hey everyone, haven’t been on this forum for a while, but I have to get this off my chest. I have had a lot of anxiety related to my current relationship. I’m in probably the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in for the past 6-ish months, but every time there is a conflict and my partner asks for some space, I get riddled with anxiety and ruminate to no end. Every day I ruminate about the state of the relationship, feeling like I need to analyze every single thing to get ahead of a potential break up. I’ve been trying to just accept that if we do break up, there’s nothing I can do about it. I’ve been struggling with accepting that I’m with him today and I can’t guarantee him being in my future. I wish I could just enjoy my moments with him while they’re happening, but I’m stuck constantly worried about the future. Has anyone else struggled with this?
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Shame and Anxiety
Anxiety Support / by Lolthatswild8446
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 June 14th, 2023
...See more Hello, everyone! I recently decided to stop dating, as I struggled to properly set boundaries for myself in my “relationships”. I’m proud of myself for recognizing that I needed time to myself. However, I find that a lot of the time I spend now is filled with wondering why I allowed myself to be mistreated multiple times, why I kept running to temporary people hoping they’d fill some void, and wondering how I am/have been perceived by other people currently and in the past. So, although I’m happy that I’m not dating and putting myself first for once, I can’t get over the lingering shame and the anxiety that comes with that.
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