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Lonewolf360
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PathStep 20 Compassion hearts230 Forum posts95 Forum upvotes160 Current upvotes160 Age GroupAdult Last activeJanuary, 2026 Member sinceMarch 3, 2024
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Looking for advice regarding anxiety
General Support / by Lonewolf360
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June 24th, 2025
...See more So hi it's me again if you remember last time I talked it had something to do regarding me overthinking things and not giving myself credit for things I've actually managed to accomplished as opposed to hyperfocusing on the negatives. and I think im running into the same issue again in this case I recently managed to complete my driving class and officially got my license but after a panic attack I had today I don't know if I'm mentally strong enough for this interview I'm supposed to have tomorrow. Like it feels so frustrating because i feel like I'm so close to getting some sense of control of my life and I was but now after what happened I just can't help but hyperfixate on all the possibilities on if this next place is just another bust like all the other places I've interviewed at. I don't know what I'm doing if anyone could lend some advice it'd be a great help
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Am I really giving myself a chance?
General Support / by Lonewolf360
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May 18th, 2025
...See more So for the past few months I've been trying to get myself out of a negative headspace and tried to put more focus on an effort for things I can control as opposed to spiraling over things I can't and for a while I thought it was working I was somewhat getting over my social anxiety and managed overcoming a previous test which now has me on track to get my learners permit but then I suprisingly got 2 interviews where the first went well but it wasn't something I could see myself managing the second basically told me they'd reschedule and the third more or less didn't even consider me for one, so now I'm wondering if I've even made any actual progress when I'm still stuck at square one like am i missing something or what?
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Back at square one
Work & Career / by Lonewolf360
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February 20th, 2025
...See more So for a while or exactly 6-7 ish months I had the lucky opportunity to work at a gym after an endless series of bad interviews and ghosting and for a while it felt good. the people there were nice and it felt like my life was getting back on track after being stuck in limbo for so long until last valentine's day where it all came to a close and honestly I'm kinda scared , I spent so long in that endless cycle of putting on a confident front just to get beat down again and again for stuff that was out of my control that I'm not sure if I have what it takes to go through it all again am I overthinking things or is it just how things are supposed to be?
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Having a bit of trouble with motivation
General Support / by Lonewolf360
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October 23rd, 2024
...See more So hi it's been a minute since I've posted here as it always is but here I go again so last week I was notified that there was a hiring event in my town right after the job fair I was going to attend got canceled due to the hurricane, yet despite trying to look for a positive outcome or trying to put myself into a better place mentally to prepare I just can't stop but thinking about all the bad luck and false promises I've been having with interviews despite doing everything right according to my coach am I overthinking things?
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advice on long term goals ?
General Support / by Lonewolf360
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August 24th, 2024
...See more hi so today i was going to this class that i attend for every tuesday which goes over independent living skills and such and to make a long story short today we were going over time managament/stress and one thing that was brought up that i couldn't stop thinking about which was long term goals. now for context a while back one of my goals was trying to save up for a laptop for video editing but just as i had saved up all my funds to get it things went south and i had to help my dad with bills and before i knew it all my hard work was essentially gone so then i tried to make up for it and save up again but i eventually gave up on it,fast foward a few months later and i wanted to try and modify my bike into an E-bike in case i ever find luck with employment so it would be easier to get around town. it's not like i'm being overly ambitious or anything but it really feels like whenever i have a set goal it's like i end up running in circles as opposed to making any sense of progress. does anyone have any coping strategies or advice for how they achieved things that felt impossible to accomplish?
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Is it too late for me to start Journaling?
General Support / by Lonewolf360
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August 7th, 2024
...See more So hi I've been dealing with some on and off intrusive thoughts and some self esteem issues for a while now some positive and well alot of negative ones in-between the more boring and mundane aspects of life n all, recently my mom gave me a notebook to write in after a mental break I had not too long ago yet at the same time I have no clue what to even put down "oh I nearly stopped myself from spiraling because of so and so" any perspective would be a help
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Issues with coming off as less insensitive?
Autism Support / by Lonewolf360
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August 7th, 2024
...See more So hi all its been a while since I've been here and it seems like I'm still having some issues regarding communication with me and my parents unfortunately, It all feels like it's the same weird cycle where for a month or so things are fine but then I accidentally say something insensitive I then realize how I might've come off as a jerk and despite me owning up to my mistake a few minutes later "the apology doesn't count" and after that there's the same process of them talking about respect followed with them threatening to kick me out and the tension is well tense for the next few hours or day before they forget again. I feel like I'm torn like I'm walking on eggshells and don't wanna come off as being a jerk while using my disability as an excuse when I'm actively trying to do the opposite so any advice would be helpful
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Just checked off a goal on my bucket list!!!
Motivation & Accountability / by Lonewolf360
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June 15th, 2024
...See more So hi not too long ago I posted here talking about my bucket list and today I just completed one of my goals. so for context I've been meaning to go out and attend a event of sorts and while I missed my chance a few times but there was this thing called geekfest in my town and I just had to take the chance, now I'm not gonna lie I was pretty excited but also pretty nervous considering how I ain't too good with people but I put on the mask(started masking)and it's like I just blended in and ended up not being as scary as I thought *** I even got to meet a few new people and got a souvenir definitely gonna attend next time it comes around 🙂
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