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LostLunara
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What is wrong with me?
Relationship Stress / by LostLunara
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 September 22nd, 2022
...See more I'm going through marriage issues with my husband. I'm also bipolar, depressed, and very high anxiety. Been through the ringer more than anyone would care for. Been physically mentally and emotionally abused way before my husband came around. Staying out of the home til I can talk to my husband without getting ready in case of a fight or if he starts drinking again. Hung out with a buddy of mine whom is also married to my other buddy. My male buddy and i spent time on two different weekends just hanging out out of town. We refused to sleep in a hotel room in the same bed and we both paid. From hearsay, apparently we were followed even though we told both of our significant others what we planned on doing. Now, my two buddies are getting a divorce and my husband is confusing the hell out of me. He's never really talked to my female friend without me there and now that we are having issues, he's been talking to her more to the point the mother called him about the huge fight my buddies had. Am I a horrible person? Am I suppose to just deal with my issues alone while my husband continues to empty threat divorce when we fight? Do I have to pick a side with my friends? Am I in the wrong for being suspicious when my husband asks to do stuff with me when it was out of the question before? What is wrong with me that I feel everything going on is my fault and I should just sew my mouth shut and lock my emotions away?
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Heartbroken and lost
Relationship Stress / by LostLunara
Last post
 September 1st, 2022
...See more I just made the decision to leave my husband after one year of marriage and being together for almost 5 years. We worked opposite shifts and lost time with one another. I've changed from how we use to be when we started. Use to play games and make music together. Now I barely have the energy to get out of bed. He has been pushing for my to switch shifts which it's much of an opportunity for me due to labor and people. He's been drinking more and lately been sweet one more then angry and hurtful the next. I go into anxiety alot due to past relationships and have been working on it, just still have ptsd from things. My mental health isn't an excuse and I don't use it as one. Tonight he pushed so much, I can't forgive or trust him right now and not sure if I can anymore. I feel terrible for hurting him and giving up. I also can't put myself through the back and forth anymore. I couldn't handle being threatened with divorce just so he could get a reaction out of me when I've been trying to take the time to rational thinking about the decision I've made. So am I in the wrong for leaving and not switching shifts?
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