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ManoftheMoon88
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15 years of marriage and my wife is NEVER in the mood
Relationship Stress / by ManoftheMoon88
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 January 30th
...See more I still love and adore my wife and we have been together for 15 years. Because I love her just the sight of her turns me on and my passion for her is endless. Unfortunately, she is the exact opposite and to the point I was concerned she was maybe seeing someone else. I’ve never had any problems pleasing partners in past relationships and I for sure have “more-than-adequate” equipment. She’s a wonderful woman, a fantastic mother and the only thing missing from a perfect marriage is the romance. It’s frustrating for me because it usually takes 2-4 days just to even set the scene for ANYTHING to happen and when it does happen she wants it to be over as fast as possible…barely any kissing, no foreplay, barely any talking, just wants me to hurry up. It leaves me feeling like I’m assaulting my own wife, I’m not spiritually fulfilled and she’s just glad it’s over. This has been a 13-year battle but I’m unsure what else to do. She hates spontaneous advances, sex toys & games are a no go, she doesn’t want to try any cosplay/roleplay, I have no idea what else I can try to stimulate her more. I’m open to any advice
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