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Missamyjane
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Year and a half post break up, how to move on for GOOD?
Relationship Stress / by Missamyjane
Last post
 March 19th, 2017
...See more Long story short a year and a half ended an on and off relationship due to being disrespected and the other person putting in no effort in contact, months later I found out on Facebook he was with someone else and started going out with this person whilst he was with me. At one stage I had him blocked on everything and all social media and cut all ties and was finally moving on until a friend we both knew begged me to unblock him and this is how we got back together, this same friend updated me recently that he has been happy with this new person and is still with her and have been travelling with her so I decided to cut this "friend" off to fully move on. As soon as I found this out I was suicidal because at the same timeI have had no luck when it comes to relationships, I have tried online dating but I gave only come across males who are really desperate and can't get a woman in real life or ones who just want FWB so I lost all hope. I always think why did I get treated like crap and he is still with this other girl? What makes it worse is the fact that the same friend went through a break up and her situation totally depressed me, her ex split up with her two years ago and she is still stalking his profile and is still single whilst he is happy and going out with a lawyer whilst this friend is not succeeding in life at all. I am so tired of seeing women who get hurt and ending up being the underdog and the ones who cause the pain gain the upper hand.
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Need urgent help!! - Positive post breakup tips and experiences of moving on/finding someone new
Relationship Stress / by Missamyjane
Last post
 April 9th, 2016
...See more l want to start a post for positive post break up experience and tips, I want to hear some positive stories of people who went through a painful breakup and ended up finding someone better and finding happiness, because I am losing hope and faith. I am a 22 year old psychology student and didn't have any luck in love, my last relationship ended a year and a half ago when my ex wanted me back and when that happened he ended up using me and going off with another girl. Beforehand all I had was guys I dated who just wanted to use me or cut contact because they didnt want anything serious. I thought I had it all with my ex as we planned to have kids and a family and it's got to the stage where I really want marriage, kids and all the full package but I don't think I'm gonna get it. Ever since I've tried internet dating and dated a guy who only lead me on and wanted sex and every time I go back to Internet dating nothing comes of it (and I won't be trying again). I had no luck in finding a guy at uni, I only attract the worst kind of older men who prey on young girls but then again my uni and area isn't ideal to meet guys. If me and my ex didn't get back together I would've been single for three years now. I am so scared I won't find anyone else, is there any hope at all? Btw I am a very intelligent, talkative and attractive person (I used to model a few years ago) and do get a lot of attention but it's the wrong attention.
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