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Need urgent help!! - Positive post breakup tips and experiences of moving on/finding someone new

User Profile: Missamyjane
Missamyjane March 26th, 2016

l want to start a post for positive post break up experience and tips, I want to hear some positive stories of people who went through a painful breakup and ended up finding someone better and finding happiness, because I am losing hope and faith.

I am a 22 year old psychology student and didn't have any luck in love, my last relationship ended a year and a half ago when my ex wanted me back and when that happened he ended up using me and going off with another girl. Beforehand all I had was guys I dated who just wanted to use me or cut contact because they didnt want anything serious.

I thought I had it all with my ex as we planned to have kids and a family and it's got to the stage where I really want marriage, kids and all the full package but I don't think I'm gonna get it.

Ever since I've tried internet dating and dated a guy who only lead me on and wanted sex and every time I go back to Internet dating nothing comes of it (and I won't be trying again).

I had no luck in finding a guy at uni, I only attract the worst kind of older men who prey on young girls but then again my uni and area isn't ideal to meet guys.

If me and my ex didn't get back together I would've been single for three years now. I am so scared I won't find anyone else, is there any hope at all?

Btw I am a very intelligent, talkative and attractive person (I used to model a few years ago) and do get a lot of attention but it's the wrong attention.

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User Profile: 6mos2Life
6mos2Life March 28th, 2016

@Missamyjane You're only 22. There is PLENTY of time. You have so many years ahead of you, so many adventures, so many new experiences. Life is not over when you're single. It'll be ok. Focus on enjoying things YOU want to do, making the life YOU want, and the right person will come along when you least expect it. You could be looking left and they'll come from the right.

Please don't be afraid. Your future is FULL of possibility.