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Things you wish weren't said or assumed about your health conditions (seen or invisible)
by ScrabbleBrain
Last post
October 1st
...See more Inspired by @Jesusredeemedme2425 because she always makes varied and interesting topic discussions :) 1. For some of us, we can't just pop a painkiller and have the pain, symptoms or discomfort magically washed away, those don't work for me. That's why I personally choose natural remedies, like heat and rest and binaural beats. 2. Why don't you take my word for it, that I can't manage that action because it aggravates my body or mind and leaves me broken in pieces for a long time.. You make me do something and after that I can barely function, then your response... Oh sorry, I assumed you were exaggerating because you don't look sick to me.. 3. Oh just smile and carry on, there's nothing you can do about it, so might as well be happy.. Nope sometimes I want to wallow and be miserable that is all too much, accept my mood, yours can be whatever you want! 4. Why don't you join us? Because it's a long taxing journey or activity and I cannot manage it. I'm not being difficult or dramatic. I have to think carefully if there are places to sit and rest, how long it takes, will I be standing or walking for a long time, you may not have consider these things but I do! 5. Stop judging a book by it's cover Yes I may look younger, I may look healthy, I may walk un-aided, that still doesn't mean you get to judge or assume I am not struggling inside or desperately grabbing onto walls or trying to give myself the mental fortitude to take another step instead of collapsing or resting because this time I don't think I can make it home.. 6. Illnesses vary from one person to the next, yours could be textbook, mine are not. Just because something works for you, doesn't mean it will for me. Stop assuming you know my body, my health better than I do. You've read something? Good for you, I know what works and what doesn't! 7. When I say, I can't manage much. It's extremely taxing to go to more than one place/do more than one activity, let alone several.. Don't scoff and laugh, like I'm being a Princess. I physically cannot manage it, it's not an exaggeration. 8. Stop being lazy! This one makes me scream. Taking care of myself, limiting my movements, napping or getting a lot of rest, helps my body repair itself. I'm not doing nothing, I'm preventing a potential strain or injury that has become all too frequent for me.
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Don't Turn Your Back!
by MistyMagic
Last post
August 30th
...See more Don't Turn Your Back! It can be hard sometimes to know how to act, What to do, What to say, When we see someone in a wheelchair, On crutches, Or with other visible disabilities. I know I used to feel like that, Until I was actually in a wheelchair. I am the same person, But I get treated differently now. I still have the same smile, But others don't. We are people too!  Real people, With real feelings, With real emotions. We sometimes get stuck on ramps, or steps, or in the sand, Even in doorways! So don’t turn your back, Say hello,  Smile, Don’t turn away!
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2026 - Taglist Disability Support
by CaringBrit
Last post
March 30th
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating tag list. To see the current list, go to Disability Support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/taglist?3ec913e645043cdcd31f94a3324ab37c]. To add yourself to this tag list, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words Please add me. To remove yourself from this tag list, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words, Please remove me. This Taglist will be used for the Daily Check-Ins could even be used for Events etc. What happens after you join the tag list? You will notice an icon for a little bell up in the right corner of your screen. there is a letter icon, then the bell, then a jar, and then the icon for your account. That bell will tell you about your notifications. When we tag you, it will show up as a number on the bell. Click on the bell and a drop-down menu will appear and it will show you the link to the post where we tagged you. Current taglist as at January 1st 2026 @777Bre777 @adaptableOcean4193 @adaptablePomegranate1587 @adequatelyInadequate @adventurousBranch3786 @AffyAvo @agreeableTurtle1021 @AguaNector6700 amazingFlamingo2054 @amusingTalker1267 @Aqua1494 @Arsalanahmed @Ashleylovescats @AttentiveEar @audienta @AutiBoy @Averayne93 @azuladragon34 @BacktotheTrail @BeyondTheInvisible @BlindGrapefruit @blissfulTouch29 @Bndonovan02 @bouncyBreeze44 @bouncyVoice4149 @Breezy2013 @cal1860 @CheeryPotato @CheerySandi @ChildGoddessFlute @Chloe1644 @cinnamoncocoa @CocoaCassie @Colorfulcatsofhope @communicativePond1728 @CompassionateMoon4024 @considerateBunny7436 @Countrygirl095 @crystallizedrequiem @Daisy7cups @Daydreammemories @DichotomousDetia @disneymoonlight @Disneywoman @DoISayIt @DonaldK @DylanMark @Edobre399 @Emiliako @emotionalTalker2260 @enigmaticOcean8813 @enthusiasticOwl866 @enthusiasticTortoise6681 @fairmindedWater1140 @Fireskye13 @FrenchMarbles @friendlyEars8792 @goldenSpruce1512 @greekcatperson @IcedCoffee211109 @IndigoWhisper @InfiniteThoughts2k19 @Jamesjones10123 @Jewels012222 @jovialButterfly6752 @JoyfulUnicorn @JoyIntoDarkness @JustLikeMellie @K87 @kenzixo @killaj0ule @Kittibear @KuhnDisabled101 @kwheelz @lightTriangle7748 @LikeABirdWithoutWings @lovelycoacoa @lovelySun2900 @LoveMyRotty @magnifiedfaith @ManinblacK @MartianGirl347 @MeaningfulSilence @Meowsicle @MistyMagic @mnhtx3 @modestHickory2783 @modestOcean1286 @moosprbrk @MyNameIsNicole @NaomiR @nessdamess @NevaehRose @norasnook @NotKhan2 @Ofenkartoffel @OneErased @PerfectHarmony10 @philosophicalAcai7803 @PhilosophicalWillow1426 @pinkbunnywabbit @Pixiechu @placidMoth @Plantsaremybestfriends @Poppia @PotFullOfSky2020 @rainbowVibes @Raysofsunshineandrainbow2005 @Reachforthestars00 @redGrapes1822 @Redheadmadeofglitter94 @repen13 @reservedCat9143 @reservedOwl6476 @RiggsMortis @Rose1324 @sabeyesofblue3535 @Seachele @SereneEnergy9119 @SmolBurrahobbit12 @Smolperidotsbreakdown  @SparklyCat @specialPurple1582 @StarsOrchidsOwls @stuffiessytem @sunshinegiraffe123 @tearstruck @theboymoana @TimidBear @TomatoEmi @turquoiseHemlock900 @u2canwin @wahmbrenda @Walker7957 @WeedyGarden @WishUponAStar968 @wonderfulRainbow817 @xandia @xxParkerxx @Zed786 Updated by MistyMagic
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People like me not belong anywhere
by theboymoana
Last post
16 minutes ago
...See more people like me not get be part any community people like me need suffer  silent let other people treat how ever want so can stand near community and pretend nahoa included
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What is your most controversial but low-stakes opinion?
by inherimagenatrix44
Last post
6 hours ago
...See more Let's have a friendly debate about something that absolutely will not ruin the world! 😂 Is pineapple on pizza wonderful or unacceptable? Are mornings overrated? Should naps be considered a serious hobby? Share your harmless hot take, explain your reasoning, and remember that we can disagree while still being kind.
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Choose softness
by Littlelostwriter
Last post
2 days ago
...See more Today may be hard, but you can choose to be soft with yourself.
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Technology - Do you embrace it or fight with it?
by WeedyGarden
Last post
Thursday
...See more Technology has come a long ways in a short time. Not very long ago the first cars were made and now there are flying and self driving cars. Not too long ago we had old fashioned AM radios and now we have the internet, Stormcloud, Spotify, Appletunes and others. Technology helps us to adapt to our disabilities with tools such as Dragon Natural Speaking to help with dictation, computer operation and more. Powerchairs help us with mobility. Exoskeletons will soon allow paraplegics to walk. Do you embrace technology or do you fight it? What is some of the technology you are aware of? Do you use technology in your everyday living?
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Streaming TV for the Blind
by Zetadog
Last post
Monday
...See more In today's age with all Streaming TV how does one switch channels on TV.  My brother is Blind and with the loss of cable tv, and everything streaming what equipment is available for the blind and handicap-ed.  Any ideas would be helpful.  Live in Alaska and not much support from local internet providers.  Thanks in advance for any ideas that work.  He uses echo to turn on tv now, but once your on echo cannot change channels to his favorites.
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Denying
by loyalPlace3408
Last post
October 21st
...See more Hello, I’m one of those weird cases where I started getting sick at a young age and even after finally getting diagnosis I just can’t seem to accept it. I know that, even though my condition really affects every part of my life, I don’t have it as bad as I could, and I’m even doing better than I have in the past. It just makes me feel so guilty and wrong to feel so depressed or frustrated that I have to live with the things and I have to live with. Specifically today I woke up (trigger warning vomiting) And had my typical once a week reunion with a bucket and small sips of water. It sucks because I’ve got my health at a point where for a good amount of the week I feel pretty tolerable like I can still work and I even started college this last year. Before last year, I was out on disability and couldn’t even drive and now I turned my life around again and things were going so good. It just feels like those days when you have a flareup is a reminder that my life will never be normal. It’s just weird to me that I’ve been diagnosed for like seven years now and I still can’t just accept that. Constantly trying to find the reason to prove that I’m not just sick forever. And I know that things can get better and I might even reach remission someday.
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Sleep disorder, chronic exhaustion/fatigue, chronic pain
by memyselfandmoth
Last post
October 15th
...See more Doctors have been zero help. It hurts so much. I'm isolated and alone because of these conditions and the most they've ever done for me is mock me and largely made things much much worse. I'm just venting but it's getting very hard and I know at this point my loved ones are very worried but I just keep to myself, grin and bear it because I know how useless trying to get real help has been for me. I'm not sick because I'm depressed; I'm depressed because I'm sick, and even more sick at the lack of help for conditions like narcolepsy, cfs/ME, and the lack of good quality research esp for AFAB and autistic populations. The injustice is hard to bear. I wouldn't wish this on anyone except maybe those who write off the chronically ill and disabled. It's gone on too long. /Rant over
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Ways to find out about disabilities
by Magicpawsoffuture
Last post
October 12th
...See more  This came after doing my last 2 posts about  welcoming and meeting people with disabilities. People may not know where they find information about  disabilities. you can  1 get to know someone with disabilities  2 go and do research on   Disabilities  3 7 cups a disability  community https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/]  what others ways can someone learn about disabilities?
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I walked in the park!!
by Aurelyn68
Last post
October 11th
...See more I walked so much today it hurt but it was great!! How was your day people?
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About me
by lavenderTortoise4595
Last post
October 11th
...See more I’ve been diagnosed with schizoeffective disorder and bipolar one with depression and post traumatic stress disorder and schizophrenia the funny thing is I feel a lot better since I’ve been in therapy for one year and still going to therapy I also take my medications regularly and see a psychiatrist monthly I’m dedicated to my mental health journey and well being because I want the best quality of life I can have
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Jobs and issues due to disabilities.
by fairmaiden1998
Last post
October 11th
...See more Working a full-time job as a cashier at a gas station, having to wash dishes, clean counters, stock cups, lids, straws, sugars, sweeteners, coffee, and food. Been doing it for 3 plus years and been sexually harassed by my manager and sexually assaulted by two coworkers, making minimum wage, dealing with arthritis from lupus, having a doctor's note, yet being threatened to get terminated due to hospitalizations for asthma, etc. I also have severe heart failure. I am 28 now. Cannot even sit in a chair, even though I have a doctor's note for it, cause apparently I would be immediately terminated for it being unprofessional. The district manager is making it impossible for me, and was slightly upset when he found out I took 3 weeks off from work for short-term disability due to undergoing intense heart surgery for a CRT-D / BIV ICD at 27 years old.  Do not want to get an employment lawyer involved; I just want to move on as a pharmacy technician since I am 3/4 in college to become a nurse. Just could use some positive words of affirmation during this difficult time.  Juggling 3 classes, a full-time job, and multiple doctor appointments during the week is very tedious, even at my age. Lupus gives me severe fatigue, arthritis, and rashes. Heart failure gives me fatigue, and I have a fast heart rate - tachycardia. I cannot seem to pace myself and get easily overwhelmed, which leads to depression and anxiety, not to mention I have c ptsd bpd, BPD, MDD, GAD, panic attacks, and dissociation episodes.  Plus, I need to find an endocrinologist again for my pre-diabetes. Finally got a pulmonologist, but need to reschedule. Financially, I could not survive without my dad's help. Minimum wage just increased to 15 an hr in Florida, but health insurance, car loan, car insurance, rent, and wifi phone bill all pile up.
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❌
by pinkGhoul
Last post
October 10th
...See more

Welcome to the Disability Support Community!

This is an inclusive community where people can seek and provide support and post about topics related to learning disabilities, chronic pain, chronic illnesses and conditions, physical disabilities and developmental disabilities. You are welcome to join in even if you don't used disabled as a label for yourself.

There are a number of ways to get involved and be supported. We have a pop up teen chatroom and a 24/7 adult chatroom.

There are guides for Chronic Pain and T2 Diabetes
There are Q&A sections for Disabilities and Chronic Pain

Members may connect with a listener who has disabilities, chronic pain, cancer, diabetes, adhd or autism listed as a topic and there are listeners with disabilities supporting people with disabilities. 

We encourage people to post new threads and respond to others in the forums! Some good ways to get started are to introduce yourself and to join our tag list to be notified of weekly check ins and events. We also have an Interview Series: if you would be open to sharing more about yourself and want to be interviewed.

Looking to be even more active in the Disability Community? Join us as a leader!

*Note we are inclusive of all disabilities but ADHD and Autism each of their own communities which may be of interest to some of you.

Community Guidelines

🌟 Please be respectful of everybody's thoughts and opinions.

🌟 Don't think you are alone, so please share

🌟 Please be patient if you feel like your concern hasn't been addressed yet; we are working hard to add more leaders and supporters.

🌟 If you have any concerns, reach out to a leader or make a post.

🌟 For Listeners only - please remember that you are here to give support, if you are seeking support then please switch to your Member account.

🌟 Most of all - don't forget to be awesome! You are loved and accepted here, no matter what!

Guidelines For Using AI 


We all want the Disability Support Community to be a safe place where people are able to be their authentic selves and receive support. We understand that AI tools can be helpful in reducing barriers, allowing people to better express themselves, and allowing those with some disabilities to be able to read, write, and post, but excessive, or complete use of AI can feel robotic and reduce supportive person-to-person interactions. It can also lead to false impressions of the poster. We want to try and avoid this and help our Community to be as inclusive and as welcoming as possible to all users.


What is AI?

AI is short for ‘artificial intelligence’ which is software, a program or algorithm that works to sort, order, and combine data to give a response or answer to a question or input. Artificial intelligence is the ability of a computer, software, or computer-controlled robot to perform tasks that are commonly associated with the intellectual processes characteristic of humans, such as the ability to reason. As yet no AI’s match full human flexibility over wider domains or in tasks.

Some of the most common examples of AI in use today include: 

  • ChatGPT: Uses large language models (LLMs) to generate text in response to questions or comments posed to it. 

  • Google Translate: Uses deep learning algorithms to translate text from one language to another. 

  • Netflix: Uses machine learning algorithms to create personalized recommendation engines for users based on their previous viewing history. 

  • Tesla: Uses computer vision to power self-driving features on their cars.



If using AI tools please adhere to the following:


  • Include some of your own personal expression. This could come from a detailed, personal prompt to the AI tool or include some of your own words with a post.

  • Cite which AI tool(s) you used, which applies both to AI-generated and AI-edited text as well as images too. For instance, if you use Dragon to voice type then say so and if the text is AI-edited include that fact too.

  • Avoid posting misinformation. AI sometimes creates personalized anecdotes, facts, or references. If you are sharing an experience, don’t post an AI-fabricated one. If posting information check that it is correct and aligns with trustworthy sources.

  • Cite the source of your information. It can be important to know and understand the source of information posted, AI-generated content may draw information from their database so try and use factual sites that can be checked and that aren’t misleading.

  • Don’t make threads in excess. AI can make it fairly quick to create a lot of content. We want to give everyone’s posts a chance to be seen. Please don’t post a large amount of threads in a short period of time, this is called ‘flooding’ and can prevent other posts from being seen.

  • If you do feel like there’s a lot you want to state on one topic, consider making multiple posts within the same single thread. Or create your own ‘Disability Diary’ thread and post there, this will increase your visibility, and those who reply will be notified when you add another post.

  • Follow the guidelines. You are responsible for what is posted from your account, even if AI was used in the creation of the post, so please double-check what you write and post!


For more information please read this post by @Heather225 - 7 Cups Community Director.


Do’s ✅  and  ❌ Don’t List:


✅ Do - Humanize your post with your own expression and words

✅ Do - Cite the AI tool(s) you use

✅ Do - Make ONE thread and post to it if there are several posts you want to make

✅ Do- Read things over and ensure the guidelines are being followed

❌ Don’t post something that is entirely AI-generated with little input from yourself

❌ Don’t post misinformation

❌ Don’t flood the forums with AI threads, or multiple threads


If in doubt please ask @MistyMagic  (Adults and Teens) or @AffyAvo (Adults) or consider joining the Disability Community Support Team. More information Here







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