MountainOtter Member Profile

...See more I’m aware it sounds messed up, but after I broke up with my ex of 2 years, I tried coping by rebounding soon after. I started seeing a girl I met, and things went a lot faster than I meant them too. I was too busy forcing myself to like this girl that I ended up just using her to get over my ex, and in the process, I hurt her a substantial amount. We stopped things when I left my city, not officially, just being away made it harder to talk as much, and she eventually told me that she was going to block me on all platforms, that she never wanted to see me again, that I hurt her too much and never contact her again. I completely agree that I deserved this, and it was best for her mental health to do this, but I found myself having a hard time coping. After being so close to her for so long and going through so much I can’t help but be heartbroken at her leaving, and never being able to see her again. I know it’s my own fault and I have no right to feel that way, but I was wondering if there was any ways to come to terms with it easier, or maybe try forget about it in general. I found myself rebounding again and stopped it before it got too far. This girl was my best friend for a long time and I feel awful that I treated her the way I did, and I really miss her. How do I move on from this?

Bio

Recent forum posts

Talk to an expert therapist

Throughout our lives, we are faced with many challenges and counseling can help...

About Us

Get Started

Online Therapy

Terms

Bio