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MysteriousBee
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts336 Forum posts7 Forum upvotes9 Current upvotes9 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2025 Member sinceMay 13, 2020
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I am learning how to manage my emotions differently and not let other things get to me mentally and emotionally, especially if it does not bring me much inner peace. I love working out, going out for morning runs, being productive, and working on myself. I love looking on the bright side of things because I am somewhat an overachiever, but I love fighting for what it takes to reach my goal. I am a compassionate person, social butterfly and I enjoy making friends!! :-)

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Friendship Breakup
Relationship Stress / by MysteriousBee
Last post
 July 26th, 2025
...See more I have met this guy at my job which I didn't know he views me as attractive. I have known him for two years in the hotel business by that he services the hotels I've worked at. He gave me his number and we went talking from there. He also mentioned to me that he has an 8 year old whom is adorable 🥰 We've texted first by phone for a month by phone before we officially went out on a date in November 2024. We've had a couple of dates, hangouts at his house and have included his son in many occasions. Right now I'm torn in pieces because he admitted to me that he has been talking to his son's mom for the past few weeks 😔. I was happy because I feel that a child should have both parents in his life. But what made my heart sink was that he wanted to give her a second chance. And unfortunately, I've never told him that I've grown romantic feelings for him. He wants to be friends until he gets everything figured out. And he never wants us to talk in person about this so I decided to record an audio message to let him know that it's not a good idea to be friends due to my feelings and how complicated it has become to his friend. I didn't tell him that I was in love with him so I'm burying that to myself. Now it's hard to not think about him and all the good times we've had. Plus, I wanted to check up on him to see how's work going and if he's okay and it's been two weeks. My feelings are seriously conflicted 😫
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A Sudden Change of Plans
Anxiety Support / by MysteriousBee
Last post
 May 15th, 2020
...See more Hi! I am hoping that someone can help me with an issue that I am having right now. My boyfriend's grandfather has been in the hospital for a month now and he is in a coma. He has severe heart issues due to his smoking addiction and there has been some complications with the family convincing him to stop. It has been days where my boyfriend and I have been getting reports back from grandma that he is not talking, not responsive to any medications, and that he has been angry and bitter with the nurses. Being the girlfriend, I feel helpless because I am not blood and I see myself as a guest/friend of the family. My boyfriend first saw his grandfather at the hospital two days ago and he mentioned to me that the hardest thing was leaving his grandfather. I felt bad for him because he and his grandfather are really close than he and his grandmother. About an hour ago, the grandmother has caught some emails being exchanged between her husband (grandfather) and another woman. I caught her crying in the living room and she mentioned to me that all three of us (me, my boyfriend, and her) should talk about what we should do. I sense that it will have to be a sudden change of plans. I am a college student and I am close to graduating to my bachelor's degree and I cannot leave so suddenly just because someone's life is in shambles. I haven't talked to my boyfriend about it yet but I will because he deserves to know. Right now, I am in a limbo here. I am caught in between being supportive and saying something because all this time, this man is in the hospital and everyone is feeling pity and sorry except my boyfriend, for the grandfather and they have been holding a grudge against him for thirty years. I feel that we have to move (my boyfriend and me) to something better and I don't want to be emotional nor angry because I accept change fully but just not in a time like this. Any advice will help please! I don't know what to do!
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