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ND23
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Depressed Ex
Relationship Stress / by ND23
Last post
 December 2nd, 2021
...See more My ex and I have been broken up for around 4 months now, she broke up with me, but have kept contact consistently. We have become extremely close again the past 1.5 months to the point where we have both expressed that it feels like we are still dating, obviously we aren’t. She deals with severe server mental health issues right now and I do everything I can to help her. The main issue is that she loves me and wants to be with me in the future, I also feel the same, but we can’t be together right now because of her mental health. I don’t know what to do because I don’t know how long it will take for her to heal. Which she feels I will be long gone by the time that happens which emphasizes her feelings of losing me. I have done everything to help her so far, any thoughts?
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Ex Confusion and Decision Making
Relationship Stress / by ND23
Last post
 December 1st, 2021
...See more Me and my ex broke up around 5 months ago, me as the dumpee. We both go to the same college and had been together for 1.5 years. Towards the end of the relationship I didn’t treat her right which caused the break up (me not making her feel special). As of a few months ago we have had very consistent communication and often talked about seeing if we would work in the future. This past month and a half we have gotten very close and act like we are dating still. Everything was going very smoothly and i was very confident in us getting back together. Long story short i matched with her friend on a dating app a month or so ago, which i didn’t know, also didn’t even talk to the girl. They showed her and she didn’t mention anything to me. She was very hurt and didn’t want to talk to me. Nonetheless, she was extremely upset and ending up sleeping with someone the next night. She is extremely regretful and would really like to make things work between us. She also deals with really bad mental health issues. My question is that should i be upset at her? We are/weren’t together but i thought we were at the point to not pursue anyone but each other. Should I take her back? I really love her and I am lost at what to do.
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