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NYCQueer
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Broke up two years ago... still not over her
Relationship Stress / by NYCQueer
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 December 19th, 2020
...See more My girlfriend and I broke up two years ago and I can't help but still think about her often. We had an incredible relationship and decided to go our separate ways mutually after the spark had faded. We realized we were best friends and no longer making the effort to be romantic. Since then I've dated and I can't seem to find the level of connection I had with my ex. Our connection was intense immediately and I know I can't expect that again since that was a rare thing to experience. We decided to cut all communication between each other from the start of the break up since we figured clear space would help us both move on. Yet... here I am two years later still pining over her. Any advice of what I should do at this point?
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