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NewThomas1994
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I’m the cause for her unhappiness
Relationship Stress / by NewThomas1994
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 September 12th, 2021
...See more Recently my girlfriend and I have been on a tear. I’ve lied to her about small things, posted mess on social media(thinking I was venting) but wasn’t and had bad communication skills which I am improving on. That was not a good idea. Ive had issues with my finances that doesn’t allow her to feel secure. She’s giving me a chance to change and to do things right. We moved in together quick and didn’t really do the dating thing right. I’m taking her out on a date this upcoming weekend to bond and have fun with her at Dave and Busters. I want this to be a start for us. She misses me being at home and I miss her too. We’re living separately and she enjoyed the things I would do around the house for her because I truly do love her. She also brought up our Sex life it could be better if I lasted longer and spiced it up a bit. I’ve been working out and drinking water consistently for the past 3 weeks and assure her that next time I’ll have a clear mind and sex will be different. Should I continue to try and win her back or should I let her live her life and move on from me? I know I can change and want to prove that to her. She’s giving me the chance but she’s running out of steam if I continue to make the same mistakes.
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