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...See more I've been stalking this community for a while, and finally decided to join ! My boyfriend and I are both freshman in college, been dating since late October, and things are not working, never has. He rarely contacts me (I have to initiate contact constantly), whenever I bring up issues like my anxiety disorder, terrible work circumstances, or my insecurities regarding my weight, he always critizise me for "being so depressing".He is good friends with my roomate/BFF of four years and they are always talking, he will blow off my messages to talk to her or play video games online together. They reassure me they're just good friends, but I don't like it. Am I just overreacting ? He doesn't allow me to hang out with guys myself, not even my closest guy friends and gets jealous of my extrovertedness at parties. Whenever we fight, it's always because of these issues and that I "dont understand a guy's feelings". He wants me to change my personality so that "people will actually like me". He calls me "stranger" and "idiot" when we are fighting, refusing my invitations for dates, as well as ignores me when we hang with friends. I don't know what to do anymore. I really do love him, and want this to work out. But I can't even go three days without having panic attacks over "things I've done" (in his words) to start our fights. At this point I've just aknowledged that I should behave like he wants me to, since I know he has my best intention in mind. Maybe he is right ? Any help or insight would be extremely appreciated, I am so lost.

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