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PandaJes
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PathStep 3 Compassion hearts46 Forum posts13 Forum upvotes31 Current upvotes31 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2025 Member sinceMarch 20, 2025
Bio

A few things about me personally:

First and foremost, I am a mom.

I am engaged to a male.

I am female- She/her.

I am a witch.

Im empathic.

My favorite color is purple.

My favorite animal is a Panda.

I enjoy reading, writing, and coloring.

I hate Spiders, Peas, and being hot.


Some things I struggle with personally:

Depression

ADHD

Anxiety

CPTSD

OCD

Chronic Migraines

Chronic Fatigue

Chronic other pains

Mathlexia

Dyspraphia


Main problems shared:

Relationship problems with my spouse.

Behavioral problems with my older daughter.


Recent forum posts
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He gave up and expects to not pay us.
General Support / by PandaJes
Last post
 March 28th, 2025
...See more Am i entitled to a portion of the taxes after me and my spouse broke up when he claimed my daughter (his step at the time) for the child credit? We were together almost 3 years, but he couldn't stand my autistic daughter (his step at the time) during some challenging behavioral problems. So he kicked her and I out. I stated I wanted her part of the taxes because he claimed her for the child credit. He has refused so far. I'm wondering if I have any legal standing if I took him to court.
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Riding the strugglebus on the highway to hell without brakes.
Family & Caregivers / by PandaJes
Last post
 March 25th, 2025
...See more I'm currently struggling with my partner when it comes to communication in regards to parenting my 9 yr old autistic daughter. He lacks understanding of just how much of her behaviors are linked to her tism. And he wants so badly to be the best bonus parent he can be. But a lot of what he is trying to apply is for nuerotypical children which doesn't work. He is alway saying I'm brushing off how he feels about stuff, or that I'm more of a friend than a parent, or that I'm enabling her. I've tried so hard to educate him about it and give possible resources and explain things. But either he can't, won't, or doesn't understand it and I'm at a loss. My life is in turmoil. My relationship with my spouse is shaky. My older daughter is autistic and adhd is going through some behavior problems. My poor 1-year-old is caught in the middle of it all. And I only exist as mediator/support for others. I am no longer a person.
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A mom trying to help step dad for the sake of our autistic daughter
Autism Support / by PandaJes
Last post
 June 1st, 2025
...See more I'm currently struggling with my partner when it comes to communication in regards to parenting my 9 yr old autistic daughter. He lacks understanding of just how much of her behaviors are linked to her tism. And he wants so badly to be the best bonus parent he can be. But a lot of what he is trying to apply is for nuerotypical children which doesn't work. He is alway saying I'm brushing off how he feels about stuff, or that I'm more of a friend than a parent, or that I'm enabling her. I've tried so hard to educate him about it and give possible resources and explain things. But either he can't, won't, or doesn't understand it and I'm at a loss.
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