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Pinkflower1234
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Boyfriend doesn’t love me, but won’t leave?
Relationship Stress / by Pinkflower1234
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 March 6th, 2021
...See more My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and living together for over 2 years. We’ve been together since high school and recently had an issue arise because I found out he cheated. We had decided to move forward, but yesterday he followed a friend of the girl he cheated with on social media. I asked him to unfollow her and he got really upset. He did unfollow her but then he started bringing up a bunch of off topic things. He brought up how I’ve gained weight, he said that I’m unsupportive, that all I do is complain, I try to be someone I’m not, and that I’m jealous of girls he follows on social media. I told him I’m not jealous, I just don’t want to be cheated on again and it’s weird that he is following girls this recent after me finding out he cheated. He says he is following girls to get exposure for his business, but he is following these girls on his personal account? Overall, I love him but I do not want to continue to be treated this way. Yesterday he said he was going to move out, but once I agreed that would be best he got mad and said he wasn’t going anywhere. We live with a family member of mine, so I wouldn’t be able to move out myself. I just feel stuck. As much as I wish it could work out, I feel like staying with him would only be worse for me because of the disrespect that he has already done. Also, I dont understand how he wants to stay when he feels all of these negative things towards me? I dont know what I should do & I don’t know if there would ever be a chance for this to work or if he is never going to change?
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