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Number of ratings17 Number of reviews12 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceOct 19, 2021 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 128 People helped107 Chats210 Group support chats1 Listener group chats4 Forum posts259 Forum upvotes539
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╭─── ୨୧ ───╮
A glass of water doesn’t feel heavy at first…
but the longer you hold onto it, the more it weighs on you.
╰─── ୨୧ ───╯

⋆Stress is the same, holding on for too long will hurt..⋆ 

Just set the thoughts down here for a while…
I’ll sit with you until it feels a little lighter.

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💌 Dear New Listener...
Newbie Hub / by Pudding1000
Last post
 Thursday
...See more It's Game Time! 💚 Imagine someone gives you the chance to go back to the very first day you became a listener. 💭 What would you say to your younger self? Leave your message in the comments. Who knows... your words might be exactly what another new listener needs to read today. 🌱 ------------------------- OLDER LISTENERS!! I'd like you to start your comment with "Dear New Listener.." so it feels like a message to our Newbies! Come, let's show some Love!💗 ------------------------- 💚Brought to you by the Welcome Committee Listener (WCL) Team. We're here to help make every listener's journey a little bit easier. For any more information on the WCL Team, click ---> HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/welcome/TheWelcomeCommitteeTeam_2670/WelcomeCommitteeListeners_374511/]
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Not Today..
Poetry / by Pudding1000
Last post
 July 10th
...See more Today is not when I HAVE to matter, Today is not when I have to make the difference, Today is not when I sort my entire being out Today is not when I fix what was broken Today I rest. I let the sorrows be sorrows, love be love, hate be hate And I let my heart and soul breathe.  Because today doesnt have to be the beginning to an end. It can simply just be... Today.
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Her Embrace
Poetry / by Pudding1000
Last post
 August 3rd
...See more My hand reaching for those wrinkled fingers, That are the warmest I've ever held, Bring out a smile that lingers, A love that cannot be spelt. The strength of that hold Taught me to be a child Crying within its embrace Even tho, now it's losing its grip and the stories that it told A voice so soft, It would make feathers feel coarse Wraps me up in a story, Of dreamy nights where love's foretold The hand I longed for now leans on me I hold it tightly to my heart, For her wrinkles feel lighter suddenly. The voice is growing faint, So my ears can't keep up, All I have are my prayers That you taught me, timeless and quaint. ~The End~
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Can Independence and Connectedness Coexist?
IDG 7 Cups Hub / by Pudding1000
Last post
 Thursday
...See more I've always considered myself a pretty independent person. I like having my own hobbies, my own goals, and the freedom to do things on my own terms. But at the same time, some of the happiest moments in my life have come from feeling genuinely connected to other people. Good conversations, shared experiences, inside jokes, feeling understood by someone... those things matter a lot to me too. For the longest time, I thought these two things were opposites. Like, the more connected you become to people, the more independence you have to give up. Or, if you're very independent, you might not be able to form deep connections. Lately, though, I've been wondering if that's actually true. Maybe a healthy connection isn't about losing your independence at all. Maybe it's about having relationships where both people can be themselves while still feeling close and supported. I'm still figuring out what that balance looks like, but it's made me think a lot about the difference between connection, dependence, and individuality. I'd love to hear what you guys think about this. Do you see yourself as more independent or more connected? Have you ever struggled to balance the two? What does healthy connectedness look like to you?
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Can Self-Awareness Ever Be Uncomfortable?
IDG 7 Cups Hub / by Pudding1000
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more I've been thinking about this a lot lately. Self-awareness is usually talked about as a really positive skill, and I agree that it is. But I also think people don't talk enough about the fact that it can feel a little uncomfortable sometimes. For me, some of the biggest moments of growth have come from noticing patterns in my own behaviour that I hadn't really paid attention to before. For example, there have been times when I've overthought situations or assumed the worst when I felt uncertain. My first instinct was usually to focus on what was happening around me, but eventually I started asking myself why I was reacting that way. At first, that wasn't always easy. It's much more comfortable to believe that a difficult situation is entirely caused by external factors than to consider the role our own fears, habits, or assumptions might be playing. At the same time, I think that's where self-awareness becomes so valuable. The more I understood myself, the more I was able to respond thoughtfully instead of reacting automatically. It helped me communicate better, manage stress more effectively, and understand my own needs more clearly. So even though self-awareness can sometimes be uncomfortable, I think it's one of the most rewarding skills we can develop because it allows us to learn and grow. What do you think?🫶 Has self-awareness ever helped you discover something important about yourself? Do you think personal growth is possible without self-awareness? 🫶
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When Reality Becomes a Memory
Poetry / by Pudding1000
Last post
 June 3rd
...See more When You Became a Memory By the girl who stayed.  (19th December 2025) I think about it sometimes— the things I pushed myself to do, the boundaries I never set, the way I treated myself... all in the name of loving you. And the strangest part is— It didn't feel wrong then. It felt like choosing you. Again and again. As if loving you enough could somehow make up for the ways you were already letting go. And maybe that was the part I didn't understand then— That love was never meant to be carried alone. And so— I kept choosing you, without noticing that you had already stopped choosing me. I'm glad you left. Because I wouldn't have. I would have stayed, and called it love— even as I kept giving away parts of myself I didn't even know how to get back. I would have kept ruining myself for you, slowly,  all in the name of love. So when you left... It didn't feel like relief. Not at first. It felt like something was taken from me that I wasn't ready to let go of. But time has a strange way of rearranging truth. Because now— when I look back— I don't feel abandoned. I feel... spared. Not from you. But from the version of me who didn't know how to stop. And maybe that's why it's easier now. Because that love— the one that felt like my entire reality— is no longer something I have to live inside. It's just a memory. And I know myself... If you were still my reality, I would have walked back to you— every time. Even if it broke me. Even if it ended me piece by piece. So thank you... for not turning back when I was asking you to ruin me a little more. I see it now. Not with anger. Not even with regret. Just with distance. Just as something that used to be my reality— and is now only a memory.
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✨ Let’s build a story together!
Newbie Hub / by Pudding1000
Last post
 August 3rd
...See more Since we have such fantasy lovers here on 7cups! Come up to the challenge! ~ I’ll start: “One day, I woke up in a world that wasn’t mine…” Now it’s your turn. Continue the story with just ONE-TWO lines in the comments.  — let’s see where this goes and what we create together 🌙
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Feedback & Reviews
So caring and soft spoken
Kind and caring. A great listener
She's great. Really listened and appreciated my situation and feelings. She looked out for me.
She was really good xo
She is so sweet!
Listens to me and doesn’t judge
She seems nice and I like how hard she tries to comfort people
She is a very kind and sympathetic person, and talking to her makes me feel very comfortable.
she's compassionate and friendly. a great listener indeed. keep up the good work pudding
she is so great , love talking to her
seemed to know exactly what to say. potentially psychic. totally recommend.
She is super passionate listener !!!
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