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Narcississtic parenting or Spiritual parenting?
Relationship Stress / by PuppetCAT
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September 5th, 2019
...See more *Racist alert* I'm a 25year old Malaysian Chinese and I have a same-aged boyfriend whom is an Indonesian Chinese, we met online as friends since June last year and somehow ended up deciding to be together this year despite not meeting in person yet (I know this is crazy but it just happened unexpectedly.. I had no issues with it tho as we have been seeing each other through vid calls and all) My family is the conservative type of Christian family and when my mum knew about this she flipped so badly and was like "Why r u not waiting for God's will?", "Since when u become so low standard? How can u even fall in love wif a guy like this?", "You want ur kids to be dark and have Indo citizen??", "I would rather u being single than to be with him!".... Yes I indeed was upset thinking that her statements r so racist and all.. she denied and said that she din look down on him as a person bt the system in Indo, and she's nt the only one to look downnon the system bt the whole world in general... (Yes she said all these and they're unforgettable...) One time I nearly gt disowned by her and got chased out of the house bcuz I attempted to keep in contact wif him.. altho she did tell me that if it's God's will no matter how long we're separared we will still cme back together agn.. bt I worry when the time comes she will change her story or "forgets" what she said.. I do understand honoring them is a necessity bt I wonder if this is the kind of parenting God wants...