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Qgirl06
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts11 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes2 Current upvotes2 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2022 Member sinceMay 13, 2018
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i have one BFF. im the person everyone forgeta about unless it is for help. im not pretty and wasnt brought up to think im pretty. i was brought up for school and work. im not confident in my ability to socialize witb humans outside of work. i am not encouraged to go out or have fun. i have 3 scotties and they are my life so at least i have them to make me smile.

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No encouragement
Family & Caregivers / by Qgirl06
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 December 17th, 2021
...See more in school and college, I was told that work and school is all I need to focus. No point in relationahips or dating because they are not important. In college, my mom coasiged my first student loan so I had that reminder too. Proud to say ALL loans are paid off and early. She still does not encourage me to go out or have fun. I do live with her and work 45+ hours and have 3 dogs. She does not want rent money but does expect me to help around the house and groceries. I do not mind because its definetly cheaper then rent and I like going on the roof to blow off the leaves. and my dogs are low maintence - we leave the door open when home so they can go in and out. But I have not been out with friends in 2.5 years. Lately, she goes out with her friends. Whatever. 4 months ago, I told her I was thinking of going to a casino to play the slots for an hour. She freaks out and says ""so im expected to watch your dogs?!" and then goes inside. I did not go because she upset me. Not once dyring these past 2.5 years has she told me to go out and have fun. In fact, if I work to many hpurs she gets upset. I am an introvert and I do not need to go out all the time but I think I may becoming depressed. I see all my friends on facebook and try to keep in touch. those nearby do things with each other and it keeps making me more lonely. Another notr, my mom is a special ed teacher and can spot when her students need her or spmething is bugging them. with me , nothing. And she has a her college boyfriend back in her life that came back like 10 years and that has fucked oyr realtionship. She is so happy her son is married and has tolx people he deserves to be married and have happiness. I am happy with my pups but I feel bad when i ask "where is mine?" I have no desire to marry but where is mine?
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