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RedRed81
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts11 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes4 Current upvotes4 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2021 Member sinceJuly 27, 2021
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Confused Relationships
35 & Over Community / by RedRed81
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 October 14th, 2021
...See more Met a longtime friend and have been talking online for a few weeks. Talks are getting interesting. I have already built my family and life with someone else. We have a home, kids, cars, pets, etc. I’m now questioning all decisions I have made up until now. Want to go and want to stay. Want to come out with it but also want to keep things the way they are. Realizing I can’t have it both ways and will eventually need to make a move. Neither of us is ready. It feels like cheating but we never did anything in-person. My body is in one place while my heart is in another. I’m so confused.
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Feeling Trapped
General Support / by RedRed81
Last post
 August 20th, 2021
...See more One little mistake leads to I basically do nothing all day. Not true. I just don’t toot my own horn over every minuscule thing I do throughout the day. I’ve felt for years that I am being set up for failure. I no longer have the energy to waste my breath explaining to people what I do all day. Never in my life have I worked for a place that prides themselves on this level of dysfunction. There’s no other jobs in my area that can offer what this job has. The only thing missing is respect and being treated like you are actually of some value. It would be nice to know that my job is secure and that I don’t have to look elsewhere. I don’t know if I can do this for 27 more years.
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