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Roseintuition1111
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Relationship Stress / by Roseintuition1111
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 November 29th, 2019
...See more My boyfriend and I have been back together for roughly 4 months. We dated for a little over a year and a half and then broke up for a year and decided we wanted to give it another shot. And now here we are. I was a heavy drinker in the past and lied a lot to him. He finally had enough rightfully so and broke things off with me. I didnt see it until he broke up with me that he was kind of verbally abusive. Like telling me you cant turn a hoe into a house wife and how much I would miss him when he leaves me and how I would end up homeless with a drug dealer boyfriend. Little things would add up and it made me doubt myself so much. I think thats part of the reason I drank so heavily. But I shouldnt blame that on him, it was my choice. Well now here we are today. I gave up drinking but I will have the occasional glass of wine every couple months. But I still feel like he asks so much of me. Like he doesnt truly accept me completely. He tells me what I can and cant wear which shouldnt be a big deal I know but it gets frustrating. Like I cant express myself through my style because he always has something to say. And he wants me to tell him every place I go. And gets mad when I dont. I love him so much, and can see a life with him but I dont know if I would be 100% happy... what do I do? I love him and care for him so much. I feel lost.
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