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⚪ Will you halt this eclipse in me? ⚫
Number of ratings413 Number of reviews200 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceFeb 7, 2015 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 866 People helped1,481 Chats13,246 Group support chats1 Listener group chats8 Forum posts95 Forum upvotes530
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Talk about your kink/fetish issues, I'm here to offer support in those areas only.

Please read the following before you contact me.

I'm only available for casual chats (no personal issues, sorry!). If you wanna chat, just send a DM

Hello! I'm a 46 year old heterosexual male from the UK, you can call me Sentry. I'm an introvert, an atheist, a humanist and I identify as a soft dom. My primary interest/experience is with BDSM related D/s dynamics, porn addiction and kinks and I'd be happy to chat to you about these kinds of things in an open and non-judgemental manner.

I'm here to have back and forth conversations and offer support to those who are dealing with issues related to kinks/fetishes, I can also answer questions you might have about those too. I'm also happy to have casual chats, my interests include binge watching movies/shows, gaming, music, science, psychology and cosmology so feel free to talk about anything like that! :)

I don't talk about anything that is illegal/non-consensual, relationship issues or abuse, and I don't give advice about what you should do. I'm also not taking chats from new members, sorry! If my light is green or orange it means I'm Online, it doesn't necessarily mean I'm available to chat but feel free to message me regardless of my online status.

If you're interested, check out this detailed survey (updated!) on the popularity of kinks/fetishes compared to how taboo they're perceived: (potential TW) Reddit - https://i.redd.it/tegfh72g5up91.jpg

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Sunspots
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 21 hours ago
...See more Full Resolution [https://ibb.co/yFfcCtjw] Was a bit bored so I took some pictures of the Sun. While the Sun can be a bit boring to look at with a white light filter (fun fact: the Sun is white, not yellow), there's still some things to see. These are Sunspots, "cold" regions on the Sun caused by intense magnetic fields which travel across the face of the Sun. They're mostly associated with coronal mass ejection events and solar flares where the outer atmosphere of the Sun gets ejected into space (and at the Earth if it's in the way, causing the aurora borealis).  Despite the Sun being the sustaining source of all life on Earth, It's said that back in 1859 an extreme solar event (The Carrington Event) caused a strong aurora seen worldwide, electrical sparking across telegraph lines and fires globally. A big fear in todays world of connected technology is if such an event were to happen again it could bring down the entire electrical and communications grid, destroying anything connected to it and essentially throwing humanity back into the stone age. Space is scary lol. I've included a link for full resolution as 7cups scales down and destroy my images 😫 Don't forget to use sunblock☀️
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The Sun and The Moon together.
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 August 14th
...See more Something a little closer to home, The Sun and the Moon meeting up to form a partial eclipse (93%). The Sun is 400 times bigger than the moon, but it's also 400 times further away which makes them both appear to be the same size in the sky so when they align just right it can form an eclipse, which is sadly not total from my location. Even with that sliver of the sun still shining the sky only dimmed slightly. The next total eclipse here is in 2090, so I'm not sure I'll make that one! 😫
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M13, M31 and M51
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 August 8th
...See more Here's some more deep space objects which I acquired with my phone and a dobsonian telescope! 🔭 The first image is of Messier 13, The Hercules Globular Star Cluster, named so due to its position in the constellation of Hercules, containing more than half a million stars. The second image is of Messier 31, Andromeda Galaxy. Located about two and half million light years away and on a direct collision course with us! It appears very large in the sky, much bigger than the full moon but still too faint to be easily seen with the naked eye.  The third image is of Messier 51, The Whirlpool Galaxy, another large but much more distant galaxy over 30 million lightyears away. It can be seen feeding off another smaller galaxy that has strayed too closely.
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M27 The Dumbbell Nebula
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 July 15th
...See more Here is the deep space object (DSO) Messier 27, The Dumbbell Nebula. This type of object is a planetary nebula, formed by a dying star shedding its outer layers of gas into space. This will also be the fate of our own star, The Sun when it dies 😫 leaving a cosmic bacon of sorts visible for thousands of light years. While these objects are relatively bright, you generally can't see them with the naked eye because of light pollution, and even using a telescope to view them they appear as a faint smudge. So that's where some photographic trickery comes in, if you take enough pictures of that smudge for long enough and stack them all on top of each other that faint detail will slowly come through. It's a long and arduous process, especially using a phone that's not designed to do this but I'm pleased with the results! Potentially more to come 😄
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Some random clouds from my garden ☁️
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 June 6th
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Moon Mosaic (10000x10000)
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Last post
 June 7th
...See more Here is the Moon once again, only this time its high resolution! This is a very large image but I've also had to compress it so 7cups will allow it. 😁 You can zoom in quite a bit but there may be visible artifacts beyond a certain level. The image is composed of 54 1080p images extracted from 8 separate videos of the moon crossing the frame recorded by pointing my phone through the eyepiece 😁 You can zoom in a bit, but JPEG and Reddit have added to the artifacts if you look too closely.. Enjoy! Info of what I used to get this image: * Moon Mosaic (74%) taken on 25.05.2026 @ 21:48 from the UK * 10000x10000 pixels, 54 x 1080p images, 560MB * 8 Inch Dobsonian Telescope, 9mm 68° eyepiece, S26 Ultra, NexYZ phone adapter * Microsoft ICE, VLC Media Player, AstroSurface, Gimp
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The Mineral Flower Moon
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Last post
 May 6th
...See more Here is the Mineral Flower Moon! What's a Mineral Moon? Due to an interesting quirk of nature, light that's reflected off different materials reflect very slightly different colours, so you can take a picture and do some colour trickery to bring them out and then you can tell what a thing is made of! Our eyes aren't sensitive enough to differentiate these colours normally so the moon usually just looks like a whiteish/greyish disc, but here the true colours of the moon can be seen! In this picture the bluer areas are deposits of Titanium rich basalt formed from younger volcanic lava flows, the orange/brown areas are older space-weathered regolith rich in Iron which gives it kind of a rusty look, and the yellowish areas are glassy ejected material from fresh impact craters. What's a Flower Moon? Well simply it is just the first full moon of may, there is nothing else special about it haha. But I kinda cheated a lil bit and the moon here is only 97% full as there was going to be too much cloud cover to get it at 100% 🥲 How I made it: This picture was taken with a smartphone pointed though the eyepiece of an 8" dobsonian telescope by extracting 1800 pictures from the frame data of 3 10 second long videos. Then all the images are stacked on top of each other and processed together to produce a single higher quality picture. To get the "mineral moon" effect the picture is run through imaging editing software to raise and lower the saturation of the colour channels and repeated until the colours are revealed. The picture here is a lower resolution version of the original.
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Jupiter
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Last post
 May 3rd
...See more A couple of people requested me to have a look at Jupiter, it's a bit of a learning process but here is what I got. I think it might represent the upper end of what's achievable with a smartphone on "tiny" objects like Jupiter. To get more detailed pics I'm going to need a dedicated astronomy camera, something to look forwards to! Jupiter is my favourite planet, you can see some of the high altitude cloud formations around the bands and the great red spot (which sometimes is brown!) looming from the horizon. I'm happy to have been able to capture it like this! Next up I want to try to create a high resolution mosaic of the full "mineral" moon 🌕 and in a few months time I might be able to get Saturn 🪐
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Very Friendly Nd Not Judgemental
Very Friendly Nd Not Judgemental
So thoughtful and caring
He is a really great Listener and makes me feel at ease throught out the conversation. :)
It was really helpful to talk about really sensitive topics very openly and not to encounter any judgment and to be taken seriously. There are very few listeners who can understand and respond with such openness and empathy. He really helped normalize my situation and think through it, and I am a happier person because of that.
Very helpful and down to earth
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Really thoughtful and caring listener. They listened to me and helped me figure insightful thoughts about my problem. I'm very thankful for their patience and kindness and also very nice.
They're very helpful and quick to reply. They've helped me sort through my emotions quite effectively
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non-judgmental
Best listener i have ever talked to !
He was so understanding and kind! I've never felt less judged before. Thank you so much!
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*Deeply* heartening to know you can some across someone capable about being intellectualized when it comes to sexuality and related issues! xD .
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