SentryTheDefiant
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Imagination will often carry us to worlds that never were. But without it we go nowhere.
Number of ratings402
Number of reviews192
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish
Listener sinceFeb 7, 2015
Last activein last week
GenderMale
PathStep 866
People helped1,420
Chats11,806
Listener group chats6
Forum posts27
Forum upvotes55
Bio
Talk about your kink/fetish issues, I'm here to offer support in those areas only.
Please read the following before you contact me.
Send me a DM if you want to chat. Currently only casual (non-issue related) chats, sorry!
Hello! I'm a 44 year old heterosexual male from the UK, you can call me Sentry. I'm an introvert, an atheist, a humanist and I identify as a soft dom. My primary interest/experience is with BDSM related D/s dynamics, porn addiction and kinks and I'd be happy to chat to you about these kinds of things in an open and non-judgemental manner.
I'm here to have back and forth conversations and offer support to those who are dealing with issues related to kinks/fetishes, I can also answer questions you might have about those too. I'm also happy to have casual chats, my interests include binge watching movies/shows, gaming, music, science, psychology and cosmology so feel free to talk about anything like that! :)
I don't talk about anything that is illegal/non-consensual, relationship issues or abuse, and I don't give advice about what you should do. I'm also not taking chats from new members, sorry! If my light is green or orange it means I'm Online, it doesn't necessarily mean I'm available to chat but feel free to message me regardless of my online status.
If you're interested, check out this detailed survey (updated!) on the popularity of kinks/fetishes compared to how taboo they're perceived: (potential TW) Reddit - https://i.redd.it/tegfh72g5up91.jpg
Search keywords: BDSM DDLG SEX KINK FETISH PORN
Feedback & Reviews
Was wonderful to meet someone like me. Available and open minded and very well versed in the topics they specialize in
Non judgemental and experienced, it's noticeable how his sympathy and kindness are truthful and that makes a great listener. Thanks :)
Very kind person
Good listener listening to me carefully
He's pretty open-minded and understanding! I'm so glad I was connected with him.
Wow! What can I say about Sentry... He is so kind and compassionate, not to mention very generous with his time. From the beginning it was extremely obvious that he is a highly intelligent individual. With that being said, he never made me feel silly for my lack of knowledge on the subjects we were discussing. He listened intently without judgment and made me feel very seen. Sentry is a great encourager and overall amazing gentleman! Best listener here by far!
P.s. A very lot much! (Inside joke)
Thank you for laughing with me
Very good listener, and great advice. I feel like she was really able to understand me. Highly appreciate that.
Sentry is an awesome listener! I didn’t know talking with them would be so easy. Their words were somehow making complete sense to me! They are very kind too and genuinely pay attention to what you say. I felt understood and supported. Thank you so much for your time Sentry.❤️😊
Very patient as a listener. Kind and friendly.
He is very compassionate, open mindedc, understanding , and so professional
I never once felt embarrassed or uncomfortable in any way given the nature of the chat. Throughout the conversation, I honestly felt very safe when sharing what was weighing on me because they were so reassuring and genuine. I highly recommend reaching out and connecting with @SentryTheDefiant
Pays attention to every detail and never judges how you feel.
Really listens and responds with respect and kindness!
Really good listener!
He is very helpful and thank you so much for being here supportive
i loved this listener! he’s so charming, kind, and understanding. i’d recommend him
Very supportive and understanding
Always helpful, patient and kind.
very helpful and calmed me down
Very considerate and compassionate. A very nice listener
I am really appreciative of this listener, they did a good job of being professional while also staying empathetic. They were still able to be caring and understanding and provide really in depth thought and information, in a professional manner. 12 out of 10
calm and undesrtanding
This person is really nice, understanding and kind. This person knows well about the topics they are mastered at.
very patient to me and gentle
Very helpful listener. Very caring, very nice
So far great listener and asks good questions!
Very friendly, very kind. I recommend.
He’s sooooo awesome!! Makes me feel so comfortable and safe to talk about whatever. Thank you 😊
She’s kind and warm
perfect listner to me!
So easy to talk to Sentry. He is so supportive and understanding. I really appreciate him for creating a safe space to process difficult topics. You rock!
Wow, wow wow. I can truly say that I have never felt so understood and given the space to be heard--and receive so many genuinely caring words of support and empathy. Thank you!
Good listener and supportive
Very rational listener. Calm, calculated and perfectly clever and open to different thoughts, while helping me clear them up without interfering in a bad way. Talks about very taboo topics that nobody else i talked to would be comfortable with, topics which are very important for mental health. I recommend.
Great listener and non judgmental
Sentry is a nice listener who will give you a safe, judgement-free space to express your innermost thoughts. He also asks very insightful questions that help you dive deeper and find answers. Thank you, Sentry, for your help!
An amazing listener who actually cares and asks important questions.
Nice listener. Just allowed me to let my thoughts out
Patient and Kind. It's comforting to talk to someone who won't judge. I'd give 10 stars if possible.
Helpful. Nice... thanks
What a kind, wise soul
a great listener
Awesome chat very understanding
Great guy, listens very well and understands what I’m going through.
Kind and very understanding!
Great listener!!!
He is so fantastic! He really really helped me, I had a sensitive topic to talk about and he put me at ease straight away! I read his profile and he seemed like the perfect listener for me, I was 100% right. Thank you so so much sentry. You're a star
Very kind, listening human...
Thank you very much sentry! Really an open minded person. wishing you all the goodness in this life!!!!
A very very good listener....very easy to talk to abt some very complicated issues1
Thank you!!! Really helpful.
Great help, great listener.
Very understanding and kind
Brilliant! Made me very comfortable
Had a really nice long chat that calmed my anxiety.
Very kind, non judgemental and open-minded person,
do not hesitate to contact him!
Very caring and helpful. He helped me with some of my anxious feelings
He is amazing....open minded...non judgemental. highly recommded!
Very Friendly Nd Not Judgemental
Very Friendly Nd Not Judgemental
So thoughtful and caring
He is a really great Listener and makes me feel at ease throught out the conversation. :)
It was really helpful to talk about really sensitive topics very openly and not to encounter any judgment and to be taken seriously. There are very few listeners who can understand and respond with such openness and empathy. He really helped normalize my situation and think through it, and I am a happier person because of that.
Very helpful and down to earth
A lovely listener. Put me at ease, understood my feelings and my thinking and never judged me. I felt like talking to a good friend.
Honestly couldn't recommend more, I feel so reassured.. had an amazing chat, made me feel so comfortable and at ease
Great listener and comfortable to talk to
Thank you, really appreciate your time. Very helpful and accepting.
Very kind and compassionate
Great person. Made me feel as though I wasn’t the only one struggling in the world. A comforting and extremely caring individual.
Really thoughtful and caring listener. They listened to me and helped me figure insightful thoughts about my problem. I'm very thankful for their patience and kindness and also very nice.
They're very helpful and quick to reply. They've helped me sort through my emotions quite effectively
What a wonderful and helpful person Sentry is. I cannot thank him enough, he helped me gain such valuable insight to an aspect of myself I've been trying to learn more about. Thank you, Sentry!!!
They are very encouraging and kind. I felt safe opening up to them about issues that were highly sensitive for me
good stuff :) empathetic, sweet listener.
They listened very patiently and respectfully. They helped me make sense of my thoughts and made me feel heard. They gave me a non judgemental space to open up and were understanding. It helped me sort out how I feel. Thank u
Very, very thoughtful and kind
Friendly to share my thoughts.
Was very patient, understanding and friendly. I was glad to be able to talk through important issues for me without judgment and advice. Thank you very much, Sentry!
Sentry was so caring and understanding. I really enjoyed our conversation.
Feeling much better every time after chatting with SentryTheDefiant
very knowledgeable.
Such a good guy very open non judgement will listen to you
Good listener. Awesome
Good listener, dealt with me even after I was difficult
Great great great
Sentry was a great listener who asked insightful deep questions which make you understand yourself better. He offers open minded and non-judgemental listening. And is interested in learning about new perspectives and life. Thank you for being there
non-judgmental
Best listener i have ever talked to !
He was so understanding and kind! I've never felt less judged before. Thank you so much!
Cooperative, helpful and respects you and your word.
*Deeply* heartening to know you can some across someone capable about being intellectualized when it comes to sexuality and related issues! xD .
Extremely patient, kind and compassionate. I felt so comforted. Thank you 😄
He is one of the best listeners I stumbled upon in 7cups. I was afraid I might be exposing myself or putting myself in bad hands but he was VERY professional and did the listening quite well. If you need to talk about something very distressful (specially the topic he states) , go ahead.
Really cares and listens well.
I was worried and was dealing with a lot. He took the time to listen, made me feel heard and empathized well. I ended up staying for longer than I expected and it took things off my mind. Thank you!
Sentry is great. He is very understanding and approachable. Read his bio fully first as his area of expertise is niche. If you work within his remit you will have a fantastic experience.
Very patient and thorough in his/her explanations. Lots of insight that was helpful to me. Keep up the good work!
great listener!
Fantastic! This listener was very helpful.
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