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SentryTheDefiant |
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Talk about your sexual and kink/fetish issues, I'm here to offer support in those areas.

I'm sorry, I'm not taking issues related to anything illegal.

Please read my profile carefully before contacting me. I'm also not taking chats that mainly focus on physical/sexual abuse, relationship issues, self harm, suicidal thoughts or non-consensual activities, please seek out another listener for these particular issues.

About me: Hello! I'm a 41 year old heterosexual male from the UK, you can call me Sentry. You can talk to me about your sexual and fetish issues, how they make you feel in general and what issues you face related to them. I can offer you a judgment free platform to talk about these things. My style of thinking is in line with rationality and reason, I'm an introvert, an atheist and I follow the ideals of humanism. I have personal experience with BDSM dynamics and DDLG, I identify as a soft dom. I can also talk to you about porn/sex addiction too.

Unfortunately I cannot guarantee that I'll be able to take your chat even if I accept your request (it depends what you want to talk about), and I'm not taking any chats from new members accounts or low activity accounts, I'm sorry about that. I'm probably gonna be set to busy (orange) a lot, but still leave me a message as I may still be available.

I'm happy to have casual conversations, I'm interested in anything related to video games (mostly play League of Legends and Destiny 2), science, space, psychology, music, movies, tv shows and anime but always happy to learn about new things.

Feel free to check out this cool study on fetishes and their popularity among men and women in relation to how people feel about them! (sadly apparently adding images to your profile is not allowed anymore?)

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Lets all remember that fetishes and fantasies are not actions, our thoughts are our own, they cannot hurt anyone and do not deserve judgement. However if your fantasies are such that you believe that you may act on harmful or illegal acts then please, I encourage you to seek out professional help right away, I cannot help you.


Number of Ratings: 362
Number of Reviews: 161
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Languages English
Listener Since Feb 7, 2015
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Gender Male
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Feedback & Reviews
So easy to talk to Sentry. He is so supportive and understanding. I really appreciate him for creating a safe space to process difficult topics. You rock!
Wow, wow wow. I can truly say that I have never felt so understood and given the space to be heard--and receive so many genuinely caring words of support and empathy. Thank you!
Good listener and supportive
Very rational listener. Calm, calculated and perfectly clever and open to different thoughts, while helping me clear them up without interfering in a bad way. Talks about very taboo topics that nobody else i talked to would be comfortable with, topics which are very important for mental health. I recommend.
Great listener and non judgmental
Sentry is a nice listener who will give you a safe, judgement-free space to express your innermost thoughts. He also asks very insightful questions that help you dive deeper and find answers. Thank you, Sentry, for your help!
An amazing listener who actually cares and asks important questions.
Nice listener. Just allowed me to let my thoughts out
Patient and Kind. It's comforting to talk to someone who won't judge. I'd give 10 stars if possible.
Helpful. Nice... thanks
What a kind, wise soul
a great listener
Awesome chat very understanding
Great guy, listens very well and understands what I’m going through.
Kind and very understanding!
Great listener!!!
He is so fantastic! He really really helped me, I had a sensitive topic to talk about and he put me at ease straight away! I read his profile and he seemed like the perfect listener for me, I was 100% right. Thank you so so much sentry. You're a star
Very kind, listening human...
Thank you very much sentry! Really an open minded person. wishing you all the goodness in this life!!!!
A very very good listener....very easy to talk to abt some very complicated issues1
Thank you!!! Really helpful.
Great help, great listener.
Very understanding and kind
Brilliant! Made me very comfortable
Had a really nice long chat that calmed my anxiety. Very kind, non judgemental and open-minded person, do not hesitate to contact him!
Very caring and helpful. He helped me with some of my anxious feelings
He is minded...non judgemental. highly recommded!
Very Friendly Nd Not Judgemental
Very Friendly Nd Not Judgemental
So thoughtful and caring
He is a really great Listener and makes me feel at ease throught out the conversation. :)
It was really helpful to talk about really sensitive topics very openly and not to encounter any judgment and to be taken seriously. There are very few listeners who can understand and respond with such openness and empathy. He really helped normalize my situation and think through it, and I am a happier person because of that.
Very helpful and down to earth
A lovely listener. Put me at ease, understood my feelings and my thinking and never judged me. I felt like talking to a good friend.
Honestly couldn't recommend more, I feel so reassured.. had an amazing chat, made me feel so comfortable and at ease
Great listener and comfortable to talk to
Thank you, really appreciate your time. Very helpful and accepting.
Very kind and compassionate
Great person. Made me feel as though I wasn’t the only one struggling in the world. A comforting and extremely caring individual.
Really thoughtful and caring listener. They listened to me and helped me figure insightful thoughts about my problem. I'm very thankful for their patience and kindness and also very nice.
They're very helpful and quick to reply. They've helped me sort through my emotions quite effectively
What a wonderful and helpful person Sentry is. I cannot thank him enough, he helped me gain such valuable insight to an aspect of myself I've been trying to learn more about. Thank you, Sentry!!!
They are very encouraging and kind. I felt safe opening up to them about issues that were highly sensitive for me
good stuff :) empathetic, sweet listener.
They listened very patiently and respectfully. They helped me make sense of my thoughts and made me feel heard. They gave me a non judgemental space to open up and were understanding. It helped me sort out how I feel. Thank u
Very, very thoughtful and kind
Friendly to share my thoughts.
Was very patient, understanding and friendly. I was glad to be able to talk through important issues for me without judgment and advice. Thank you very much, Sentry!
Sentry was so caring and understanding. I really enjoyed our conversation.
Feeling much better every time after chatting with SentryTheDefiant
very knowledgeable.
Such a good guy very open non judgement will listen to you
Good listener. Awesome
Good listener, dealt with me even after I was difficult
Great great great
Sentry was a great listener who asked insightful deep questions which make you understand yourself better. He offers open minded and non-judgemental listening. And is interested in learning about new perspectives and life. Thank you for being there
Best listener i have ever talked to !
He was so understanding and kind! I've never felt less judged before. Thank you so much!
Cooperative, helpful and respects you and your word.
*Deeply* heartening to know you can some across someone capable about being intellectualized when it comes to sexuality and related issues! xD .
Extremely patient, kind and compassionate. I felt so comforted. Thank you 😄
He is one of the best listeners I stumbled upon in 7cups. I was afraid I might be exposing myself or putting myself in bad hands but he was VERY professional and did the listening quite well. If you need to talk about something very distressful (specially the topic he states) , go ahead.
Really cares and listens well.
I was worried and was dealing with a lot. He took the time to listen, made me feel heard and empathized well. I ended up staying for longer than I expected and it took things off my mind. Thank you!
Sentry is great. He is very understanding and approachable. Read his bio fully first as his area of expertise is niche. If you work within his remit you will have a fantastic experience.
Very patient and thorough in his/her explanations. Lots of insight that was helpful to me. Keep up the good work!
great listener!
Fantastic! This listener was very helpful.
Great guy! Awesome listener and had the perfect balance between sharing his own life experience and listening compassionately!
Friendly listener
True to his bio, great guy!
Awesome person - listened to my issues and didn’t judge at all!
Very helpful and understanding
Good listener, really atentive
very helpful chat, gave me another point of view to look at my sexual issues
Genuinely helpful advice and wonderfully patient
So easy to talk to! And open!!!
Amazing person to talk to.
I felt safe, comfortable and not judged while talking about uneasy things. He is a really an incredible great and empathetic listener!
he's a very understanding, compassionate, understanding and warm person
He is a really caring listener
Sentry is an amazing listener ! ♥️ Sentry knows how to help you and really understands !
he is such a great listener and handles tabboo topics professionally
Very respectful and attentive to details. Was a wonderful person to communicate with, because genine and non-dangerous.
really cool person
Helpful person and a good listener. I wish his Good luck.
Very helpful and underatanding!
He is the best listener i have ever come across on this or any site...undersrands my problem appreciate everything abt him...thank u
You are doing great. Thank you for listening. :)
Take the time to read his profile. He is a great listener and does understand without making you feel judged
Very kind and helpful!
Very understanding
Great listner. Really made a difference to how i feel about alot of thigs and helped me see a light at the end of the tunnle thank you
Very wonderful and understanding guy! One of the very few people who understand what a little truly needs🤗🦋💜
incredibly kind!
really helpful! made me feel so much better and helped me understand things more :)
Very good
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