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SgMFluffy
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Feeling upside down
35 & Over Community / by SgMFluffy
Last post
 August 26th, 2024
...See more This is an odd one for me to write. Wife and I are separating, I am still in shock and still haven't I assume accepted it. I find myself wanting to reach out to her in passing, still living together, or the thoughts of I'm 35 and I have no friends. I don't know how to make connections and the connection maker I had she almost doesn't want anything to do with me. Even this post feels odd/off just because whenever I think about trying to make friends or such I start to spin or feel upside down because I feel like I'm giving up and accepting that maybe just maybe it's over.
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Divorce
Depression Support / by SgMFluffy
Last post
 August 20th, 2024
...See more I don't know where to begin. My wife came to me last week and told me that she wants a divorce. She said that she's been struggling with this for 2 months. She tells me that we have grown apart and that we are roommates. She says she can't see herself being my wife again when I bring up counseling. I tried for a week to be more attentive and talking with her but it seemed cold. I tried to talk again yesterday and it now turns out what drove her to this and why she's not willing to try and give up on 11 years is because she is tired of struggling to get me to let her in and her always having to force her way in. She even mentioned that I never took her advice to get help to get meds or go to counseling for myself so she's just done. I don't know what to do with myself. I feel like a failure as a husband and as a person. And I feel alone.
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