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...See more I am female 31 and my wife is 28. We have been together for 7 years and married for one year. We have had some challenges in our relationship which included my wife having an affair two years ago which we got through with counselling. My wife has always been abit passive aggressive but this has increases to almost daily over the past month or so. A few examples of this are follows: thinking everyone including me hates her, she gave our cat the silent treatment and when I tried to interact with her she ignored me I told her I was going into the bedroom as I wanted to check on my phone which was charging and she came through crying that I had done this, she will often disclose suicidal thoughts and when we discuss counselling she says she can’t afford it and when I offer to pay she tells me “I’m not a leech”. We decided to keep our finances separate, I told her I wanted to see a counsellor and she said it’s about me isn’t it. She will often have tantrums when we are discussing topics such as finances and she has admitted sometimes she dies this so I argue with her which either results in me crying or snapping at her which results in her crying. I’m not sure how to respond or cope with the passive aggressiveness any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

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