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ShinobuTengen22
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Trauma Support / by ShinobuTengen22
Last post
 May 1st, 2023
...See more Hello I’m new to this community well on this account that is! Lost my other account due to time and well, yeah! I want to heal completely atleast as most as posible so it doesn’t hurt me
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Sexual Assault/Triggering patterns (TW)
Trauma Support / by ShinobuTengen22
Last post
 April 25th, 2023
...See more I really thought i would be able to live a different life now that I finally have a partner but things kept coming back. What I mean is repeating patterns from the last two relationships I had in my life. I felt damaged, I was physically beat by my boyfriends and it really kept going on for two whole years. Hiding bruises all the time, bite marks, and then even having to lock myself in my room isolating because I was not allowed to be with any of my friends or else they would get jealous. Now think about this you must be saying “why did you stay? Why didn’t you leave if they abused you so badly?” Well that’s something I just didn’t deal with well myself being alone, no one to count on and not wanting to be alone was partly the problem. I really thought id be fine, however I’m gonna explain the now in this issue. No I don’t beat my partner or anything I wouldn’t lay a hand on him. I got cheated on all the times I was in my before relationships so now I got nervous as *** being in other relationships, new ones. Made me feel off. I realize now that I was always being controlling and scaredy partner of the now would cheat and it hurt me so bad to think of other females with him. It really does. So I came here to explain that I honestly wish I knew how to break those fear patterns and pain patterns of all those shattered memories I’ve had around in me.
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Any help with Long distance Relationship troubles?
Relationship Stress / by ShinobuTengen22
Last post
 June 24th, 2022
...See more Hi :) ive been really depressed for long time now and i want to make this out here hoping some people can help? anything is appreciated. story: long story short me and my boyfriend, are in a long distance relationship technically (one hour or two away) and so, i have a bad anger issues sometimes like a shortish temper. he started to catch on after a while. and sometimes ill be nice and he will be mean and then we both end up mean to one another over the phone. hes a busy guy and im not really a busy gal myself. But i just miss him too much deathly and i just wish me and him could spend more time together and like make this work because we both love one another, Thats one thing for sure. i just wanna cope and also we both want to fix our relationship that was anger and sadness. its bothering me and id appreciate help ask me questions too about it if youd like.. thanks
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