Any help with Long distance Relationship troubles?
Hi :) ive been really depressed for long time now and i want to make this out here hoping some people can help? anything is appreciated.
story: long story short me and my boyfriend, are in a long distance relationship technically (one hour or two away) and so, i have a bad anger issues sometimes like a shortish temper. he started to catch on after a while. and sometimes ill be nice and he will be mean and then we both end up mean to one another over the phone. hes a busy guy and im not really a busy gal myself. But i just miss him too much deathly and i just wish me and him could spend more time together and like make this work because we both love one another, Thats one thing for sure. i just wanna cope and also we both want to fix our relationship that was anger and sadness. its bothering me and id appreciate help ask me questions too about it if youd like.. thanks
@ShinobuTengen22,
seems that you rely on him to be there for you while he is busy.
So get yourself busy. And make plans to meet. One/two hour drive is definitely not long distance.
Hi @ShinobuTengen22 ,
I'm happy to see people wanting to come over their issues and do their best to fix them. I could say I'm proud of you.
You said that you both are used to being mean to each other but always end up together happily and forgive each other. It is so great that you overcome it and get back to each other. Looks like you love each other so much and that you both are ready for fixing all the issues in your relationship. What do you think the next step is then if you both want a solution?
@ShinobuTengen22
hey there! thanks for sharing your story 💚 I've been in a long distance before so i really understand what you're going through. i think many of the times people don't see where things are going wrong and then realise their mistakes only after losing the person but in your case, you already know where it's going wrong and where you both should work on. i think communicating with them, listening to eachother first and working on yourselves for eachother would definitely work. good luck! 💚
Hi Tengen, Appreciate you sharing your story. I feel open communication can be the best solution here. Understanding each other needs. Prioritizing other person feelings can improve the relationship. And may be adding some things on hobbies list can help to engage your time as well. Explore your hobbies.
Good luck. sending you lots of love and healing :)
