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Strawbunnii
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Sexual things really bug me, help? (Its a bit of a story so hear me out please?)
Relationship Stress / by Strawbunnii
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 June 10th, 2021
...See more So when I first got with my fiance, he had been in some troubling relationships and didnt understand what a healthy relationship was.. Because of this, he thought it was normal to look at a bunch of porn type stuff and even send it to me. Lets just say it took him a very long time to understand his mistakes and fully stop. Now, whenever we see cartoons or shows or games that have girls that are in bikinis or showing too much skin, i freak out. It feels almost like betrayal to me because he used to be so disrespectful to me before. He said he wants to watch anime again but anime has so much fan service and stuff like that.. It kills me.. What do i do to get over how much this hurts me?
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He used to be toxic but isnt now
Relationship Stress / by Strawbunnii
Last post
 June 7th, 2021
...See more So ive been with my fiance for nearly 2 years now. Things started very toxic and unhealthily but i was too submissive to really notice. He lied a alot and uses to look at alot of sexual stuff all the time. He would send me stickers of p*rn and had no regards for how anything made me feel but i dealt with all of it because i didnt have anyone to tell me something needed to change. After i started freaking out whenever i saw inappropriate things or even just remotely disrespectful things, he satrted to just hide stuff. After going through our problems i showed him how toxic he was and now thinking about his past actions breaks his heart. Hes very compassionate and loving and cares so so much about me but i have insane trust issues because of how he used to treat me. Its super difficult for me because hes so wonderful and i trust who he is now but because i dont trust who he used to be, im constantly struggling with myself. Any kind of advice/ support would be wonderful, thank you.
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