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SugarPlumFairy246
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How do I get over him?
Relationship Stress / by SugarPlumFairy246
Last post
 September 11th, 2022
...See more My ex and I broke up a few weeks ago because I have a job that’s sending me away for a year. He mentally cannot do long distance for anxiety reasons since his ex broke his trust with long distance. He still texts me every day and wants to hang out before I leave. He doesn’t want me out of his life. I still very much like him but I’m not sure if he feels the same about me. Someone said he can’t be with me for very valid reasons but he doesn’t want me to leave and go on in my life without him or he doesn’t want me to move on yet. And I certainly haven’t moved on yet. I don’t know if I should move on and ask him if he would like to try again when I get back granted both of us are single. Or if I just let it go and move on completely. Help?
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Will he come back?
Relationship Stress / by SugarPlumFairy246
Last post
 September 9th, 2022
...See more I thought I was over him. I’ve had a few dreams for a few nights about him. Even though we broke up we talk every day. He says he doesn’t want to lose me and doesn’t want me to leave his life. We only broke up cause I got a job that sends me away to different states for months and he emotionally and mentally cannot so long distance. He doesn’t want to be away from his partner for months and months at a time without knowing when they will leave again. His ex got a job like mine and she ended up never coming home and moved half way across the US. he says he’s scared it would happen again and can’t sit and wait for months or a year for me to come home. He wants to hang out just the two of us one last time before I leave for a few months. He said we might get back together one day when I’m ready to settle down more than I am now. Idk if he still likes me or thinks of me or misses me. Or if I should wait and hold out hope that in the future we might get back together one day. And I don’t mean like not date anyone and wait for him. I mean like keep the thought in the back pocket just in case in 5 years we try again type of hope. It’s so hard to tell. Idk if I bring up getting back together after I get home from my 4 month job. Idk if he even likes me anymore. I’m so confused.
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Should I wait?
Relationship Stress / by SugarPlumFairy246
Last post
 September 7th, 2022
...See more i just graduated college and I started dating a really great guy. He had some trauma from the past which totally didn’t bother me. During this time he ran out of his anxiety and PTSD meds which caused him to have a lot of anxiety and panic attacks. At the end of a relationship I got a job that would have me we locate for months. He got really scared that I would have a abandon him like his last girlfriend who got a job and never came home and he said he couldn’t do it and broke it off. He said one day if stars align then we could date again as long as I don’t have a job that makes me travel the way that this job makes me travel. We still talk every day and are great friends. Do I hold on to hope that one day we will get back together or do I just move on?
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Will we get back together?
Relationship Stress / by SugarPlumFairy246
Last post
 September 6th, 2022
...See more I am an actress fresh out of college and I’ve been luckily booking jobs back to back. I was dating an amazing guy from one of my jobs and I’ve known him for a few years. I just got a job and a callback for two jobs that are out of state that will keep me out of state for months. He broke up with me because he doesn’t think that he can emotionally handle me being away for that period of time because his ex girlfriend got a job for three months and then ended up never coming home. So he compares me to her in that respect because he scared I’m going to do the same thing or my jobs will be lined up so closely to each other that we won’t get any time together and we would miss out on all of the things that happen in relationships. He told me that maybe in the future when I’m ready to settle down and start a family which I wanted to do anyways we could get back together. I don’t know if this will happen or not or if the universe is telling me that he’s not the one and I’m not listening. We still talk to each other every day and he still wants to hang out with me but he just can’t do that kind of relationship. Should I MoveOn and hope that one day we can get back together? Or should I just say forget about it? Help???
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