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Sunflowergirl08
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Social anxiety is literally ruining my life
Anxiety Support / by Sunflowergirl08
Last post
 August 3rd, 2023
...See more My social anxiety is getting stronger day by day and i reallyy really wanna get over it....But how do I? I cant really make friends and talk to anyone.....
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Friendship Support / by Sunflowergirl08
Last post
 March 22nd, 2024
...See more I'm trying my best to move on from an eight year relationship......its more difficult because he was the only friend i have. My social anxiety doesnt let me make friends offline and online friends ...I never thought about it because i felt its never real.....but now i really dont know what to do. Any suggestions will be appreciated......
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Relationship Stress / by Sunflowergirl08
Last post
 August 4th, 2023
...See more I was in a relationship since last 8 years but there have been several times when he's never tried understanding what situation I was in but yet I've kept my love above all and tried my best from my side...... But last Saturday, something really bad happened....I've always and always tried whatever I could for him but he started ghosting me and my cousin sister (who is really close to me and him as well) tried talking to hiim about me and he said I was never really there for him and there's nothing left to talk...... Even till then I had always been trying to keep myself in his shoes and think from his side before reacting in front of him but this week made me realize he's never going to understand what's going in my side even when I've always given my everything to him. I actually have social anxiety too( that I got due to my family ) and have a really hard time seeing/meeting new people and making friends so I dont really have "friends" friends.....I get attached too easily but people just come randomly make me attached and leave and all I had was him ......But now I feel like I myself need to back off else I'll really end of losing even the small part of me that I have within myself. I do love him a lott and always want the best for him but my anxiety stops myself from communicating my heart out to him thinking it might hurt him and I would never want that.....this situation is really weird and I really dont know what I should be doing. My sister is still close to him and I don't like venting about him with her and show her my sad side(which she still sees because my eyes and face just shows everything i feel). I dont want him to feel I ruined their brother-sister relationship... I've been trying my best to distract myself from this but i dont know what to do.......The only two people i shared everything with arent there with me.....and I'm left all alone. Making friends and connecting offline is not really my cup of tea , i have very bad social anxiety...and about online friendships...i used to feel its never real but i dont really have any option. I know i couldnt even explain it propely here but still any suggestions :) ?
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