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TerrariumSnails3
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Silly Little Things
Anxiety Support / by TerrariumSnails3
Last post
 April 27th
...See more Sometimes it’s the silly little things that stop my anxiety from spiraling out of control. Sometimes I’m so anxious that it’s hard to move or feel like I can even face tomorrow. Lately I’ve been on a mission to try to reduce the times that outside situations make me feel like I can no longer cope with the feelings of anxiety or anxious thoughts running through my mind. One thing I’ve been trying is embracing spontaneity and adding whimsy whenever possible. For me this has meant getting outside to look for isopods under rocks or wearing outfits of colorful skirts and floral dresses and pretending I’m in the mediaeval era. Earlier today one of my husband and I’s friends was over and I was pointing out a snail in one of my terrariums. He offered to take a photo for me and even edited it and sent it right away. Now, remembering that it’s in my inbox stopped me from spiraling out of control for tomorrow. It’s things like the silly little snails that hold me together.
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Chores and Cleaning
Disability Support / by TerrariumSnails3
Last post
 April 17th
...See more More of a rant than anything else. I want to surprise my partner while they’re gone and clean our entire apartment and I love cleaning. However, it is so exhausting to clean despite being able to put on music and just vibe. It’s great for replenishing my mental health but terrible for my physical health. My heart seems to think I’m doing a workout even just doing dishes and for some reason vacuuming is nearly impossible if it lasts longer than 5 minutes at a time. It sucks when things that help my mental health negatively effect my physical health because then it effects my mental health and becomes some sort of weird feedback loop. I hate the penalties my body gives me for not following its rules.
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Marriage with different sex drives
Relationship Stress / by TerrariumSnails3
Last post
 April 14th
...See more I’m wondering if anyone has any suggestions for increasing a sex drive or decreasing anxiety around sex. For some background my partner and I have been together for many years and we’re happy, but it’s clear that he has a much higher sex drive than I. I’m pretty sure I am a form of asexual as he has been the only person I’ve felt a sexual connection or desire for, or even been turned on by. I do enjoy sex with him but the problem is that I don’t really initiate sex ever because I just don’t think of it or really have a desire to. I enjoy the act, just I’m not sure why I don’t want to initiate it ever. Some troubles may be around anxiety related to sex such as someone calling and interrupting us, possibly being sore or getting a UTI from it. Other anxieties as well and I get really shy around the idea despite doing it many times before. It’s been making my partner insecure and I would love if anyone has any suggestions.
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Let me know what your favorite names are
Reading & Writing / by TerrariumSnails3
Last post
 April 8th
...See more I’ve been writing a new book recently and a few of the names just don’t seem right. I love looking at names and sharing them so let me know some of your favorites from either your writing or favorite reads! Some of my favorites are: Ronan Caspian Wendy Charlie Satu Joona Arden Gwen
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