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Thaliav119
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My husband cheated on me.
Relationship Stress / by Thaliav119
Last post
 November 11th, 2024
...See more My husband was unfaithful once again after asking me to come back. He is talking to one of his employees that knew he was married and she didn't care. She said that if he wants her to stay she will (i called her). He laughed when i told him what she had said and he even got mad at me for confronting her. He was also mad that I made him choose bc he wanted me and her. I told him he can't do that. He saida i choose her bc she's a blank page. So now I have to leave and move back to Michigan with my 4 kids ... mind you im a/was stay at home mom.. I'm not upset I'm honestly disappointed in myself for thinking it could of been different...
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Im lost and confused.
Relationship Stress / by Thaliav119
Last post
 November 9th, 2024
...See more Last night my husband told me that he just gives up on life. He doesn't want to try anymore in our relationship. He doesn't want to try in anything. He used words to push me away. He was very hurtful but truthful. He said I'm just waiting to get fired so that everything else can just go to 💩. He talked about how he even thought about leaving us with out saying anything (running away) he said that we are done . When I cried he would say "why are you crying" . The conversation yesterday left me confused, hurt and feeling like I was the problem.
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My 10 year marriage
Relationship Stress / by Thaliav119
Last post
 October 29th, 2024
...See more I meet my now husband back when I was in high school. We lived in separate states. We met on a 3 wat call . We were friends for about 2 years . He was a player and i was fell for his charms and words. We finally met in person after high school in GR. He was amazing but one day I saw a txt from his x . It said " we are like the seasons, we always come back" I did ask him about it .he brushed it off with a she was a good friend before we dated and after we dated we just stayed friends. I should have known better. Some times goes on i tell him that I guy from high school just confessed to me that he had crush on me. He didn't seem to care and i didn't care much about it just wanted to tell him. Times moves on and yet here comes more x girls that he entertaines. He saw nothing wrong with it but stopped talking to them. They come back a few more times( with in 2 years). By this time I have 2 kids with him. I was tired of him not putting a stop to it. So decided to to it too ( I was 20-21) still young and imature. ( we did a lot of petty things to each other) It was like that for about 4 years we did go to therapy. We found that we didn't know each other at all nor knew how to love each other. He tired to do everything right but by that time I have already seen him send and receive pictures. I no longer wanted him. But I was just there with him. He found out that I was entertaining other ppl and acted like I was to blame for everything. Me moved on from that and we moved to a different state. I was pregnant with my son during the pandemic. He was still entertaining other women again. He denied and then admitted to it. After my son I was pregnant with my 4th and last child with him. During this time he hasn't changed. He kicked me in the face while we were in a argument. I was still pregnant. He would have never apologized to me if I haven't had brought it up. At this point we have been married for 8 years.(@ 10 years) We separated for about 2 months , we still had "feelings" for one another. Decided to try again we are going to therapy. But we are both in this weird place where we are both indifferent but want to try and save our marriage. It's hard really.
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