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Tiffany48
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts47 Forum posts16 Forum upvotes19 Current upvotes19 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2025 Member sinceJanuary 4, 2022
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I’m Tiffany and I’m married and I have adhd autism and intellectual disability went through depression and anxiety. I am open and easy to get along with. I am Christian and my faith is very important to me. I have a 5 year old son as well.

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Taking it easy
General Support / by Tiffany48
Last post
 October 2nd, 2025
...See more Lately I’ve been taking it easy not engaging in a lot of chats since my birthday weekend and I need some of that time to myself in the mornings. I’ll be easing back into chatting more to others next week. It’s been a nice little break and I’ve been able to focus on me and what I need to do and things for me. I jumped in and like within 3 days had 50 chats lol! I was very busy the first week too busy and it was getting to be too much and taking all of my morning time away from what I need and want to do. I am still here and you can leave me a message and I’ll answer it but can’t talk for a long time m, i understand some of you are lonely (thought about a hobby) want someone to talk to (I can talk but not for more than 30-45 minutes at a time). I enjoy helping everyone I just have to help myself clean my house cook look after animals and a kid and sleep eat and shower and spend time with my husband and that’s alot and if I’m not answering or on it’s because of that. I have what’s called priorities and this is like on the low end of it as it’s not important in my daily tasks and routines. Anyway hope yall have been doing well and just thought I would send this out so yall know I’m here just not as active til next week I’ll ease in it and not do 50 chats in 3 days! That took a lot of my time and some energy as well. Too much.
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Feeling like I’m not a good wife anymore 😭😭😭😭
Self-Esteem / by Tiffany48
Last post
 September 24th, 2025
...See more I am a believer in Christ but never been good at praying I was texting my husband earlier and he said he has constant communication with him which made me feel inadequate to be his wife. I every now and then pray for my husband but I don’t have constant communication with him😭😭 it’s not something I’m naturally good at and I have ADHD and I get easily distracted with everything! I would be reading right now but I’m on here. I don’t know where to start with prayer I am glad he has a better relationship than me with him but I’m just feeling like I’m not the wife he needs as he needs a praying wife and I’m sadly not that kind not right off the top. I don’t know who to talk to on here about this matter I’d like someone who can help me with this to message me. A praying husband deserves a more actively praying wife but I just have alot going on personally with ADHD Autism and intellectual disability I am easily distracted and don’t know where to start as my heart desires to have a close relationship with the Lord and to pray for my habit it doesn’t come out of my mouth very often. I feel like a no good wife sure I clean cook give him his needs and attention support him and love and care about him. I just feel like putting myself in a dark place and crying and I know he tells me more of the truth than anyone else so I believe he does have a better relationship and at times I do pray and pray for him to have a better relationship with him and better communication and everything. Now I’m feeling like he’s just out of my league here he is constantly having communication with him and me not saying a prayer every day sometimes not every week other than at the table. He loves me and everything else he just deserves better than me. He deserves a praying wife that won’t beat herself down. One who will pray with him and pray for him. He doesn’t do alot of reading but he does alot of praying from what it sounds like. I just don’t understand anything in my life disabilities not being able to mother properly, drive, have a career and I just feel like a nobody. One that won’t ever be anyone worth anything. I know Gid thinks differently but I don’t feel like the things he says I am. How am I the wife he needs me to be for my husband if I don’t pray much and it’s hard for me to pray?
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Hi I’m new
20 & Over / by Tiffany48
Last post
 November 17th, 2025
...See more Hi I’m new here I’m 29 and will be 30 on the 29th am I still welcome here at 30? Lol is there anyway to become a listener on here I’d like to be one maybe verified one day. I’m between therapy as in getting new insurance and have some small family issues I’d like to talk about but I’ll let you know I am married and have a 5 year old son with my husband. I like to talk about adhd related things other people don’t tell you as well and things around marriage and parenting some. Alot of my issues are issues others brought up to me that I need to talk about and not my own problems and issues. My mom makes me feel like I need therapy more than anything else, my husband has autism and I have adhd autism intellectual disability to name a few things and I’m medicated for adhd depression and anxiety and the horrible PMS! She knows he loves and cares for me but finds every little thing wrong that she doesn’t like rather wrong or not and talks to me about it then I have to talk to someone about it to get it off my chest. Don’t think she’s trying to separate us she just wishes that my husband would change and ONLY GOD can change people and help them change and if they are willing and I know my husband is willing it’s just not happening on “her time” because it only happens in Gods time. I’d be fine with therapy once a month if she wouldnt bring these things to me all the time and obsess over them. I’m not becoming a nagging wife either that’s not my job to tell someone what to do how to do it and how to live their life and all that I’m here to support love encourage and be a companion and helper to my husband and best friend he really is my best friend no one else would of stayed with me when I wasn’t cleaning house caring for animals well and all that stuff. Others would of called me lazy divorced and moved on and I don’t call that true love do you? Any advice here wish she would sorry about her own plank and now my husbands speck?
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