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TrippyBoyo
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i dont feel like my girlfriend opens up how she used to
Relationship Stress / by TrippyBoyo
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 February 6th, 2023
...See more my girlfriend has been shutting down and becoming frustrated at everything i do, recently if i do something that normally doesn’t bother her or only somewhat bothers her, it devolves into an argument. we’ve nearly been together for two years now and it started about 2 months ago. i try to talk to her and i get one of these: * she nitpicks at the details until i get frustrated and have to distance myself * she deflects blame and usually tries to make it my fault * she does little things that she knows peeve/upset me if i can get her to listen to me she usually just says one word phrases and shuts down. weve talked before about needing/respecting space so i don’t understand why she wont at least tell me she needs space. in the past when we would argue which was rare we would figure it out later after we were done being upset and could think clear, but recently we dont.i really do love her and i dont want to leave her but i need her to communicate with me and be able to set her emotions aside, but any attempts to get her to see if something is going on she says that shes fine and promises nothing is going on. i love her with everything and she is my everything, i want her to be happy but i dont know what i should do.
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