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Hello, I'm Rose. I am a great person to talk to about serious and difficult issues.

I do not have any topics which I am unable to handle or that make me uncomfortable. There is a list of topics I specialize in below the photo.

I always do everything I can to create a non-judgmental and compassionate atmosphere. I will respond immediately to all personal chat requests if I am online, and will talk to you for as long as you need.

I understand that for some, knowing the person they are talking to is an important piece of being comfortable sharing their feelings and experiences. If you have any questions, do not hesitate to ask. To read a bit more about me personally, scroll to the bottom of my profile page.  

Fellow Listeners!

I have written many guides on handling difficult topics, as well as having put to together an extensive resource guide for you to use. Do not hesitate to message me if you ever find yourself lacking resources. I can also help you become more involved in the listener community.

"The meaning of life is to find your gift and the purpose of life is to give it away" - Unknown

“You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and stars; you have a right to be here.” - Max Ehrmann

“So then, the relationship of self to other is the complete realization that loving yourself is impossible without loving everything defined as other than yourself.” - Alan Watts

“No one leaves home until home is a sweaty voice in your ear saying- leave, run away from me now. I don’t know what I’ve become, but I know that anywhere is safer than here.” - Warsan Shire

“We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.” - Carlos Castaneda

 

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I specialize in helping with:

- Abusive situations -

- Drug-related issues - 

- LGBTQ+ Issues including questioning and transgender issues -

- Runaway support -

- Psychosis -

- Self-harm -

- Sex-related issues (Puberty, fetishes, etc) -

- Sexual assault -

- Spirituality -

I am also able to help with:

- Anxiety - 

- Depression -

- OCD -

- Relationship stress -

Roles

- Group Moderator

- Internship Graduate

- PTSD/Trauma

- Verifiers team 

Discussions I lead

Teen Trauma support - Mondays at 10am EST

 

*Images by James R Eads

 

More about me

I am a writer, a musician, and I love being outside. I spend most of my time reading, going on long walks, playing guitar, or kayaking in the river. I believe very strongly in being the change you want to see in the world, and I take a hard neutral stance on perception. I began living on my own at the age of 16, and have experience with homelessness, psychosis, sexual assault, abuse, and drug use - both healthy and unhealthy. I am a polyamorous person, which means that I practice consensual non-monogamy. I am passionate about harm reduction based drug education, and open sex-education which includes conversations about consent, relationships, and contraceptives. I enjoy spending time with people more than anything, and have an intrinsic drive to do all I can for the world.
Some poetry I enjoy:

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Number of Ratings: 168
Number of Reviews: 69
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Mar 28, 2016
Last Active in last 6 months
Progress Path Step 379
Cheers 88,942
People Helped 440
Chats 1,071
Group Support Chats 177
Listener Group Chats 30
Forum Posts 461
Forum Upvotes 852
Feedback & Reviews
Objective, understanding, and patient.
She is amazing. I feel so much better.
Great
A kind and understanding person
This is an amazing listener I definitely would recommend talking to this person I greatly appreciate what this listener is doing
great
Very patient and kind
A really great session. Fully recommended.
They were very helpful and listened while I was venting. They made me feel like I wasn’t worthless and that what I had to say mattered. It was nice to speak to them.
I cannot recommend this person highly enough. They definitely saved my mental health. OML! I cannot get over it! Full of great resources and words, this is definitely the person to help you. They inspired me to become a listener so i can help people! Bless!
Thank you for your help :)
Helpful
They were so incredibly helpful and kind
They have been so kind and helpful so far
Really nice to talk to, helpfull, gives good advice and stay's with you till the problem is solved or she could help you.
Helped me with a lot of stuff he was very friendly

if i gave him a rate from 1 to 10

I give him/her a 40
Thank you for your help I really truly appreciate it
Kind caring helpful. Enjoying talking to her she helped me see my problems and solve them. Take care hun x
very helpful
She's amazing. There's no one better to talk to if you're feeling down or having a lot of anxiety. Listens to you and responds respectfully, keeping you in mind. Thank you so much Rose. :)
UntilThen really helped me out. Most people on here are just goofy teens who won't actually listen or help you at all but this person was excellent and really gave me good advice :)
responds super fast & offers sympathetic guidance
Thank you so much🖤
Thank you💕
I really liked her
I like her, she listens :)
Really helped me better understand my issue and think deeper about it. Also offered a new perspective to me that I hadn't thought of. Really insightful!
Rose is a genuine and kind person. They were practical and patient with me and seemed to honestly care. Very recommended for anyone who needs someone to listen.
A really great listener who is fun to talk to!
Good listener, very helpful and caring. I recommend to anyone dealing with OCD or anxiety.
Thanks rose you are so kind.. 💙💫
Great
She is very sympathetic and is making a change for the 7 Cups Community!
Good listener with good experience
thanks for listening to me, i appreciate it
Great person!!
So nice and comforting!
Amazing support person. If you want to vent and let everything out I highly recommend until now. She's absolutely amazing and has helped me so much.
Thank you for letting my mind free with you! She was great to talk to and seemed like a really good friend i knew for a long time. :)
She helped me with my arachnophobia.
Really helpful, so glad I was able to get advice. I really appreciate her help.
UntilThen was awesome. They helped me work through some relationship problems I've been having, and also helped me uncover some of my insecurities and how to address them! Very empathetic and sweet, as well :)
10/10
She's really helped me to see what options i have to get through my mdd.
Really helpful and friendly!
an amazing listener and really understood what i was going through as well helped me, 7 cups is a great place to vent :)
an amazing listener and this person really understood what i was going through and helped me, 7 cups is an amazing place to vent :)
very sweet and let me rant to them a looooot, thank you
Kind, helpful, encouraging.... Thank you!
Determined, kind, encouraging.
This listener was really good! They helped me with a lot and helped me understand everything i didn't know or wasn't sure of, if you need a listener i personally recommend them!
She is a good listener, thanks again
This listener is good at handling depression and motivates me to seek help and makes me feel less alone
I came on here desperate for advice and honestly feeling very overwhelmed. Out of the three people I talked to I definitely felt the most calm after this chat. I felt so much better and like I could actually manage the situation rather than like it controlled me. Thank you so much for everything :)
She have great experince, and is helpful. Nice chat.
they're really nice
Really helped me get passed a lot of obsitcles that i've been having to face recently. Also the response time was amazing. Never judged me at all, and i'm greatfull for that. Really an amazing thing.
thanks.
She's a really good listener, and helped me gather the courage to solve my problem.
She was awesome. I had a rough day and was really nervous to talk about what I was feeling, she helped me a lot. She is one of the persons I can really relate to, she is very kind and patient.
Very good listener! Attentive to your needs and hears you out!
Wonderful person to chat to. She was amazing and very understanding. Non judgmental and responds back quickly. Helped me resolve my problem. Will definitely be going back to her if I need anything. I highly recommend her to anyone who needs anything.
Really good listener and very helpful and generous too
Definitely does not waste time responding.
i felt awesome , i think it was a relief :)
Very understanding
Very understanding and helpful

Very kid and understanding! I felt like they were a great friend
special friend. wise. talented.
this one ease my mind.
she can see my true colors.
you can throw anything at her and she remains a calm pond.
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Questions Answered
How do I know if I'm depressed or just lazy or unmotivated?
July 24th, 2016 2:15pm
What can help me get out of bed when I'm suffering from depression?
August 8th, 2017 1:04pm
Why can't I be normal and happy like everyone else?
July 17th, 2017 6:44am
Is it normal to think about suicide everyday?
May 24th, 2018 10:27pm
How common is depression, am I really alone?
July 17th, 2017 6:53am
How to forgive yourself for hurting someone?
May 24th, 2018 10:51pm
I'm dating someone with depression and anxiety. What to do?
June 16th, 2016 2:37am
I think I have depression and I want to tell my parents but my brother recently got diagnosed so I feel like they would think that I'm just trying to get attention. What do I do?
June 30th, 2016 12:16am
What should I do if I am feeling suicidal, but don't want to tell anyone?
May 24th, 2018 10:50pm
I feel sad a lot, unmotivated, and I often can't stop crying for many hours. But I sleep and eat decently and I also can smile or laugh sometimes. Am I depressed or just sad?
July 18th, 2018 12:34am
If I can't stop thinking about killing myself during a panic attack or think that I'm dying, does that mean I actually want to kill myself unconsciously or is it something else?
August 8th, 2017 12:53pm
How can I talk to people normally?
May 24th, 2018 10:45pm
What should I do if people think I am lying?
July 18th, 2018 12:36am
How to stop overthinking things in a relationship?
May 24th, 2018 10:23pm
My boyfriend has anxiety attacks and when he does I don’t know what to do or what I can do to help him? He tells me to just stop talking. What can I do to help him? I don’t understand at all
July 17th, 2018 10:00am
Am I bisexual or am I lesbian?
July 17th, 2017 6:11am
Has it been hard for other people, that are a part of the LGBTQ community, to have an open relationship in front of parents/ loved ones, even though they know you are LGBTQ?
July 17th, 2017 6:52am
How can I explain to my friends that me being attracted to girls (without sounding rude or mean) doesn't necesarily mean I like them?
July 17th, 2017 6:25am
Why do fellow LGBT people not want to discuss about their sexuality when they are just as alone in this as me?
July 17th, 2018 10:02am
Why is it easier to "come out" to someone I just met than to my friends of years?
July 17th, 2017 6:45am
How can I know if I won't regret sex change treatments?
January 9th, 2017 12:25am
Why am I gay?
June 29th, 2016 3:12am
Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?
July 17th, 2017 6:22am
I don't really feel like a girl or a guy. Is it possible to be neither?
July 17th, 2017 6:42am
please give me signs to know confirm that I'm trully a bisexual ?
July 17th, 2018 10:06am
How do I decide if I want to keep my child or give him or her up for adoption?
July 17th, 2018 9:51am
How do I talk to my kids about sex?
August 8th, 2017 1:25pm
How can you stop the urge to cut?
June 14th, 2016 3:03am
Is it still considered a self-harming episode if no wounds or marks are left from it?
August 8th, 2017 1:21pm
Why does my girlfriend cut herself?
June 30th, 2016 12:17am
What do I say to people that ask about my scars without making them uncomfortable?
October 13th, 2016 3:08am
Does using acid to burn yourself count as self-harm?
July 17th, 2017 6:13am
How do I explain scars when a young child asks about them?
June 29th, 2016 4:56pm
This is going to sound bad, but recently, I've been cutting myself because I enjoy the sight and taste of my own blood. I just need to know if this is normal or not?
July 17th, 2018 9:58am
How can you tell that you have really moved on?
June 6th, 2018 5:22pm
How do I know I will find someone else?
May 24th, 2018 10:40pm
Why do women cheat instead of breaking up?
November 2nd, 2017 7:13pm
Should I go back to him/her?
May 24th, 2018 10:33pm
Why do we get into a relationship with someone we barely know?
August 8th, 2017 1:06pm
I'm dating someone who has cheated in the past. What should I do?
June 29th, 2016 3:11am
How do I tell my boyfriend I'm not happy?
July 24th, 2016 2:13pm
is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?
June 23rd, 2016 5:32am
Why do I get over people so easily?
July 17th, 2017 5:54am
My long-term boyfriend told me that my mental health has affected him and he just wants to be friends as though nothing more ever happened. This really hurts me. What should I do?
May 24th, 2018 10:21pm
My boyfriend posted my nude pictures because I cheated on him. He doesn't want me back. Is there a chance?
July 17th, 2018 10:05am
Should I tell my partner or friend I am a recovering addict?
August 8th, 2017 1:32pm
How do I know if my drinking or drug use is becoming an addiction or a problem? I can stop any time I want...
August 8th, 2017 1:34pm
If I have a drinking problem, can I still use drugs, and vice versa?
August 8th, 2017 1:27pm
Why is it that I cant seem to get over the urges to use again? Is there something wrong with me?
July 17th, 2017 6:20am
At what point are you considered to be an alcoholic or addict?
July 17th, 2017 6:36am
Why does my dad put alcohol and narcotics ahead of the family?
July 17th, 2017 6:04am
Why can't I stop getting drunk?
August 8th, 2017 12:58pm
How on earth am I going to survive sobriety and stay sober?
August 8th, 2017 12:46pm
What is considered substance abuse?
July 24th, 2016 2:11pm
Do I have duty to love my family?
July 17th, 2017 6:58am
How can you get relatives to view you from a neutral perspective, free of past judgements ?
July 17th, 2018 9:53am
Is it my fault that my parents are on the verge of separation?
July 17th, 2017 6:15am
How do I tell my family that they aren't helping, rather, hurting me in my recovery
January 9th, 2017 12:40am
My dad likes to touch me. Is this sexual abuse?
June 30th, 2016 12:13am
What age is too young to leave home?
February 16th, 2018 2:05am
How can I make my family understand that I'm not seeking attention and just trying to get the help I need?
August 4th, 2017 1:59am
My parents think I’m dumb and annoying and that I can’t communicate, why?
July 17th, 2018 9:56am
What is the difference between Perfectionism and OCD?
June 28th, 2017 1:44am
How do I identify a trigger?
May 24th, 2018 10:20pm