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Vesness
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PathStep 3 Compassion hearts18 Forum posts10 Forum upvotes13 Current upvotes13 Age GroupAdult Last activeJuly, 2020 Member sinceJuly 28, 2019
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Your signs that it's time to leave.
Relationship Stress / by Vesness
Last post
 May 7th, 2020
...See more I was in a situationship for a while. It really wasn't working well but it was hard to let go of my one friend. We had different expectations. Then I read about an exercise that involved writing down what makes you uncomfortable to make it easier to leave. For me this was a huge help. I hope others can be helped by this exercise. 1. He did not offer to pay for a meal despite causing me to need a 50 dollar test. 2. He was rude to me in the grocery store by acting like I didn't exist even though he invited me to shop. 3. He fetishizes me doing chores for him and doesn't consider how this makes me feel despite me pointing this out. 4. On our first date he openly judged me for having a warped family dynamic despite not having control over this or giving me a chance to explain the full situation. 5. He plays games regarding the COVID virus by insisting on social distancing and not having hanging out, but was ok with me cleaning for him out of sympathy. 6. He has shown less and less interest in doing things outside of his apartment before COVID virus. 7. He doesn't take constructive criticism. But asks me for advice.
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'Looking for friends' on dating sites(w/ reason)
Relationship Stress / by Vesness
Last post
 December 26th, 2019
...See more Hi, so I have 'looking for friends' on dating sites I use now. I lost a lot of weight over the past couple of months and am quite annoyed that I am now a serious dating prospect when I think I looked good before as well. I do have a couple of friends I met online, one I hang out with in person, but things can be a bit rocky sometimes with the friendship. Am I doing something wrong or am I doing something many people do, what are your thoughts?
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Good experiences on 7Cups.
Newbie Hub / by Vesness
Last post
 July 31st, 2019
...See more Hi I just wanted to say I am so happy with this app so far! I have been lonley and it is great to see such a positive community of people supporting each other. I thought it would be cool for people to share their good experiences on here. Any thoughts?
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