'Looking for friends' on dating sites(w/ reason)
Hi, so I have 'looking for friends' on dating sites I use now. I lost a lot of weight over the past couple of months and am quite annoyed that I am now a serious dating prospect when I think I looked good before as well. I do have a couple of friends I met online, one I hang out with in person, but things can be a bit rocky sometimes with the friendship. Am I doing something wrong or am I doing something many people do, what are your thoughts?
@Vesness We all have our needs, whether it's friendship, or more than. I am also "looking for friends" on dating sites, but truly am only looking for friendship. Most people don't understand that. I guess if it turns into more than that, it's ok.
As far as the weight loss...whenever anyone loses weight it increases their confidence, not only because they were able to lose weight, but also because people tell them how good they look.This also improves the likelihood that they will feel comfortable meeting, or starting a relationship with someone. I am waiting for that confidence for myself, of course, I'm also waiting on the weight loss lol
Sometimes rockiness is good, sometimes it isn't. It really depends on how you're dealing with it and how you feel about it. If it feels right, it probably is. If it doesn't, it might be time to rethink it.