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PathStep 15 Compassion hearts32 Forum posts16 Forum upvotes19 Current upvotes19 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2025 Member sinceAugust 22, 2025
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Relationship Stress / by Vio163
Last post
 October 29th, 2025
...See more I don’t know what to do. There’s this one incident that happened in my family. And I am worried it can split us. My stepdad did something he thinks was a joke and funny but my mom didn’t see it that way. They argued a lot about it and she had a small break down. This situation is just so complicated I don’t know how to describe it. I just don’t know what to do. We don’t know what to do. My mum doesn’t trust him right now and she doesn’t know if she ever will. She thinks he did a deception and feel worried. I feel worried too because I think we built a great family and really liked each other. But now I’m doubting about it and my mom too. I feel like I could forgive him but still I am a bit worried what could happen. Or could it happen again? Or could it be worse? Am I allowing him doing that ? Is that okay? We had such a great relationship, it wasn’t perfect but I was happy to have him in my life. Now I don’t know what to think about that.
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Friendship Support / by Vio163
Last post
 October 20th, 2025
...See more Hello. I just want to get this out of me cause it’s kind of pulling me down. There is this one boy I knew he exists and we talked together ones at a jazz concert. Afterwards I thought we were gonna become good friends but nothing of what I pictured happened and I guess that’s fine. Alright I got over it but now after 6 months we talked together and spend the whole day together and with others too because it was arranged by our piano teacher. It wasn’t just us there other people were there too but we mostly hang out and really got to know each other “more”. It was really nice to talk to someone who is around my age. I felt like I wanted to get to know him better and would like to be friend with him but I don’t want to push too much on that. I would really like to have some friend but don’t want to rely on that. I perhaps don’t want to give myself false hopes. I don’t know. What if he get scared or I don’t know didn’t want to be friend with me. I just don’t know. I know that I know nothing. We had a good time and we laughed together and talked kinda lot and I was enjoying it. I wish I could do that again or take the time back to talk with him and be around him.
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Addiction Support / by Vio163
Last post
 September 29th, 2025
...See more I am not a addicted to anything or maybe I am perhaps addicted on hurting myself mentally but that would mean then we are all addicted and we all hurt ourselves. But lately I’ve got this feeling to start to smoke. I’ve never tried smoking and I hate the smell but there’s something that wants me to try it or perhaps the feeling of smoking a cigarette will let my all problems melt away. I don’t know. But I’ve got this feeling a year ago and it went away. But now it’s coming back and I don’t know what to do with it.
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How about you?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by Vio163
Last post
 October 1st, 2025
...See more Hi. Sometimes I find it sort of easy to know who I’m attracted to and sometimes it’s just so overwhelming. I like both men and women. But I was quite always so sure I like only men even though I remember I was around 12 outside with my girl friend and I told her: ‘I hope I’m not lesbian’ and she said:’ yeah I hope I’m not either’. And that was it. I’ve buried it very deep and made sure not to think about it again. But life went on and somehow it just kept coming back. And I still was denying it. And after a rough year I realised I am bisexual. I can’t just choose one. I’ve always liked men and women too but I still find it sometimes so confusing. And I’m sort of also choosing to focus on dating women though I haven’t properly dated any woman. I just feel like if I start to date with a man it’s gonna be harder to explore my other sides and perhaps feel trapped. Those are just my thoughts and I think Im thinking about it way too much. I don’t exactly know what I want but I know I would like to explore with women. How about you? I would like to here your story.
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Self-Esteem / by Vio163
Last post
 August 25th, 2025
...See more I worry that everything I’m learning or enjoying won’t be the same way as I get older. I feel sometimes trapped in my dreams and picture future being better than it is now. I’m sometimes way too much far away from now or way too much far away behind. I worry that people won’t take me seriously in the things I really love and enjoy. I worry that I won’t make it. I worry that my self consciousness will always take control over me and I won’t be able to do things I wish I could do . I worry a lot but enjoy less. I worry I’m just an uncertain, quite shy, outsider, but still trying to enjoy life my way, person who will any time get exposed and I’ll sink deep down not to come out again. Or at least it’s gonna hurt to put yourself together again and try and try and not to think much about what they will think about me.
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