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Wallflowerblush1
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PathStep 65 Compassion hearts81 Forum posts6 Forum upvotes9 Current upvotes9 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2025 Member sinceMarch 12, 2018
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How to forgive?
Depression Support / by Wallflowerblush1
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 February 17th, 2021
...See more I don't know how to forgive. When somebody hurts me it's very hard for me to forgive them, specially if they don't apologize with me first. But sometimes I feel bad because my relationships get ruined because of my pride and I wish I could forgive them and start again, however, as I said it before, it's still very difficult for me. Can you give me some advices?
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Things I hate to hear
Depression Support / by Wallflowerblush1
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 February 14th, 2021
...See more 1. "It's your fault" - Imagine tellling somebody you made a mistake, you were wrong about something or someone and now you feel bad about it and, thos person, instead of supporting you, just says "It's your fault". Blaming it's cruel at this situation, it's disrepectful and less empathic. 2. "But you're so young!" - It's annoying when older people use our age as an excuse to ignore or downgrade our feelings, issues and decissions. Being young doesn't mean we're naive or that we're supposed to not have problems. 3. "That's nothing!" - I hate when I tell my problems to someone else and this person starts to compare my problems to their making mine seem to be less important. 4. "Don't be so dramatic!" - How could I ever trust in someone to share my feelings if they cal me dramatic? If they say I'm overreacting? They don't know the magnitude of my problems, what talking about them means to me and how it makes me feel. Crying, feeling sad, upset or deppressed it's not being "dramatic". Those are some of the things I hate to hear the most. What do you hate to hear and why?
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