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Wolkenwalker
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Need someone to be bitter with me
Relationship Stress / by Wolkenwalker
Last post
 March 19th, 2022
...See more After Not having opened reddit in more than a year probably, I re-opened my account to find out I was still following the girl my ex cheated on me with. She and I used to be friends too until, you know, she happily did things with him. Anyway, I saw how she jokingly responded to the question: "What's the sluttiest thing you have ever done?" by saying "Holding hands before marriage" a few days ago, like girl I-
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How to deal with the pain
Relationship Stress / by Wolkenwalker
Last post
 January 31st, 2021
...See more After three years, my boyfriend and I broke up at the beginning of January. He has been acting terribly, almost intentionally cruel to me eversince. It took him less than 24 hours to kiss someone else although his reasoning for breaking up was that he couldn't be in a relationship anymore. Now he is in a new one, he basically ushered me out of our apartment so He could spend more unbothered time with his new girl who he had been telling me not to worry about in the past. He is mad at me for acting like I don't like her and he has been revealing Secrets about me TO HER that I made it clear that I never wanted them to be revealed. There are more instances but I don't know how to deal with the pain of Feeling so betrayed. I worry I won't ever be able to trust again and he has the audacity to get mad at me Sometimes. He just seems so unrealistically evil and I don't know how to deal with the pain, how to get over it. Any advice?
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Help: My boyfriends Depression is Back.
Depression Support / by Wolkenwalker
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 May 15th, 2020
...See more Dear all, thank you for taking the time and listening to my Problems. Yesterday, my boyfriend confessed to me that his depression has returned after two years of being depression-free. Now I am researching as to what I can do. 1) My boyfriend had a bad experience with a therapist in his teenage years. He cannot trust any therapist since. I carefully brought up the Idea, but it seems to make him too uncomfortable. I hear mixed signals on what I should do. Should I leave him be and just try to be a comfort or should I try to convince him again and again because it is a necessity? Even if I tried, I don't think I could convince him and I am scared for him. 2) He says he won't be able to show as much affection anymore. Is anyone in a relationship with someone that has depression and can give me any headsup as to how our relationship is probably going to change? What should I definitely try and definitely NOT do? 3)Do I need to brace myself that his depression won't leave? As of right now, I am thinking of it as a needing to sit this out Situation, because he Had stopped suffering from depression once before. But what If it never leaves? I am intending on staying with him for the Rest of my Life, but now I am Not entirely sure what that entails & If I can be a strong enough support. 4) what can I do for myself? I am seriously struggeling with accepting his depression. I don't want to See him in pain & it Hurts. I also don't want him to know that it hurts me. Any Tips?
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