How to deal with the pain
After three years, my boyfriend and I broke up at the beginning of January.
He has been acting terribly, almost intentionally cruel to me eversince.
It took him less than 24 hours to kiss someone else although his reasoning for breaking up was that he couldn't be in a relationship anymore.
Now he is in a new one, he basically ushered me out of our apartment so He could spend more unbothered time with his new girl who he had been telling me not to worry about in the past.
He is mad at me for acting like I don't like her and he has been revealing Secrets about me TO HER that I made it clear that I never wanted them to be revealed.
There are more instances but I don't know how to deal with the pain of Feeling so betrayed. I worry I won't ever be able to trust again and he has the audacity to get mad at me Sometimes.
He just seems so unrealistically evil and I don't know how to deal with the pain, how to get over it.
Any advice?
It sounds to me like he is breaking boundaries that were established during the relationship and is being unnecessarily cruel. I think you need to get yourself out of that situation as soon as you can and acknowledge that this is probably for the best. It may hurt for awhile, but he’s showing his true colors now and you don’t want to be with someone who can openly treat you this way. Try to avoid him as much as you can and hopefully find some resources so you can move to a better environment, and I would delete him out of your life for good.
I think you need to cut him off cold turkey if possible:( I’m going through a break up as well and the book ‘It’s Called A Breakup Because Its Broken’ really helped me. I know it’s a little cheesy to read a self help book but it honestly told me everything I didn’t know I needed to hear. I think it could really help
