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adventurousOcean7067
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Give him another chance and left broken again
Relationship Stress / by adventurousOcean7067
Last post
 March 18th
...See more I was in a relationship with a guy and we broke up because I felt like he wasn’t listening to my feelings 23 weeks pregnant with his child and this break up happened during the pregnancy as well. I went no contact and then focused on myself. Then I reached out to him and then we started dating again. Everything was fine. I just told him that he needed to prove that I could trust him again and He said he would give it his all. I recently found out about a small lie. He told it was just a little lie about going to the bank when he didn’t and he said he didn’t want me to see him as lazy so that’s why he did it and that made me break trust and I was really hurt so he decided to come see me to try to repair it. During the visit I had asked him who he talks to you on *** because I was curious and he said my friend and then I said what friend and then it took me three times and then he said this girl He used to talk to you while we were together. I had told him to block this person will not block them, but I told him it made me uncomfortable that he told her all of our relationship problems and he ended up blocking her to not do that anymore. So I found out he had been talking to her during the break up and kept contact All this time and I asked him if he talked to any girls during the break up and he said no. I asked him did he talk to any girls on ***? He said no. When I found out, he was talking to her today. I was like why would you lie if I asked you if you talked to any girls and he said he didn’t see her as a girl because he just talked to her for advice because she’s a psychiatrist I guess. He said he didn’t tell me because he knew I would be upset. Then I get mad and I go into the bathroom to get some space because I’m processing everything and he calls her on the phone trying to get me to talk to her and for her to tell me that she doesn’t see him that way. He kept asking her would you date me and then tried to give the phone to me to talk to her to prove that it was nothing going on. Then I told him to leave my house and then I tried telling him how it upset me and he was like oh well I told you the truth now so that’s all that matters. But I broke up with him because lying is a very big thing for me and he kept something From me. Now I’m just very hurt and back at square one with my pain.
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Should I contact my toxic baby father?
Relationship Stress / by adventurousOcean7067
Last post
 July 12th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone I needed some advice if any you want to reply I would really appreciate it. I was in a relationship with a verbally abusive guy, he called me the worst names and threatened me. I went no contact with him when I was five months pregnant because I didn’t want to be treated like that anymore. I kept in contact with his mother because I didn’t think it was fair to keep his family out of the picture. He told me he doesn’t think she is his anymore about a month before I gave birth and that he didn’t want me taking to his mom anymore. I decided that I was still going to keep in contact with her. I told his mom I had her and she seemed happy. I also asked her to tell him that she was here. He said that it wasn’t fair he missed the birth IF he is the father. So what I took from that is he was still questioning if he was the father l. I asked his mom if he wanted a paternity test but she never responded. It’s been a month my baby girl is a month old now. Should I break no contact and ask him if he wants to be in her life or should i just wait until he decides what he wants to do? I would appreciate any feedback ,thank you.
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