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adventurousTalker271
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Just a 17yo tryna get better for her boyfriend and family

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Relationship Stress / by adventurousTalker271
Last post
 September 1st
...See more How do I tell and explain to my boyfriend in a nice way that recently I feel unloved. It’s eating me alive and I am so scared he’s been losing feelings. I’m trying to be chill about it because I know he was busy and he was on trips and school just started yk. However,it’s getting to be a lot and it makes me sad sometimes. I feel like he doesn’t enjoy talking to me anymore and he’s getting annoyed with me and ‘having to talk to me’ he’s never said this and has actually said the opposite,but I can’t stop my mind from going to the worst possibility for no reason at all. It’s making me question my own worth and is making me worry I’m not good enough. What if there’s another girl out there who’s prettier and better for him?? He’s given me no reason to think like that but I’m scared nonetheless. I feel like recently we are just so busy and distant that the love doesn’t feel there that much
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Depression Support / by adventurousTalker271
Last post
 August 28th
...See more I woke up today already feeling that large,fat sense of dread,and I tried to put it off for longer by going back to sleep until I REALLY needed to get up for school. I got ready on time luckily but I still hate waking up and feeling like this everyday. I don’t even know what I’m upset about anymore. At first I knew what it was,some sadness here or there but now it’s bigger and it’s every damn day. It’s getting to the point where I want to quit my job and shut everyone out and not talk to anyone anymore. However,I know that isn’t the right thing to do in this situation. I need my friends and family and loved ones but I feel like I’m smothering them and only bringing them down too. I wanna talk to my boyfriend about how I’m feeling but I don’t wanna constantly make him upset too. What’s worse is,my anxiety has been *** skyrocketing recently because he leaves for Chicago on Thursday and doesn’t get back till September first. That is the longest we have been away from each other for our entire relationship. I know it’s not a big deal but while I’m so vulnerable and suicidal rn and have been cheated on before so it affects me,it just makes stuff like this so much harder for me. I’m excited for Wednesday because that’s when we have our hangout day since usually it’s on Thursday but he leaves that day,but I’m also dreading it because I know he’s gonna be gone for a while the next day. And he can still text me ofc and he probably will but what if he falls out of love with me or finds a better girl in Chicago. It’s just eating me alive and I’ve already talked to him sm about it that I feel so *** bad doing it again.
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