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amicableTortoise674
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I feel so empty. No idea how to enter relationships with girls
Relationship Stress / by amicableTortoise674
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December 6th, 2015
...See more I feel so empty. I have no idea how to enter relationships with girls. Whenever I come home from my daily activities like work or gym, I get suddenly reminded myself of my situation where I am alone and find it extremely hard to talk to girls. Even when there is a girl I may be interested in, I just get overcome with fear and cant approach her. And when I find myself in a conversation with one (by accident usually), I come across as arkward due to nerves or just an inability to strike up an interesting or funny conversation. I dont know why i'm like this. It may have been due to my upbringing. I just wish some girls would just take the initiative and just ask me out instead of the guy having to do it, because I feel I can never do it and I don't know how to let someone know that I am attracted to them. I wish someone would just spell it out to me that they like me because I am a dunderhead and cannot read those cues. And im not exactly the worst looking guy in the world. My anxieties are really affecting my life. Anyway I just feel like I need to get this off my chest. Feel free to offer tips on how to set about sorting this out. I dont have a large circle of friends and neither do my few friends do the world going out drinking thing, so I dont get the opportunity to meet girls. Really getting me down. I feel so empty. I got no one to share my life with and now I get regular low moods due to this. I hope I don't become depressive. :(