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angelite999
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i need relationship advice (basically just need to know whos the toxic one in this relationship)
Relationship Stress / by angelite999
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 September 24th, 2021
...See more TW ABUSE AND SEXUAL ABUSE so basically i just realized my partner of over a year is abusive. which obviously isn’t good and i’m planning on leaving them soon. the thing is, i’ve done some awful things, i cheated once (on their DID alter), i talked shit about them to their best friend behind their back, threatened to commit suicide or stalk them if they left, and once i had phone sex with them while they were drunk because i felt pressured into it. every time i try and bring up how my partner makes me feel bad *gently* they blow up and list off every bad thing i’ve ever done. i’ve apologized countless times and take full responsibilty for my actions, i understand they don’t have to forgive me and that they’re allowed to be mad at me. the thing is that they never ever apologize for the bad things they’ve done to me, and today they told me straight up that they won’t apologize because the abuse and anger they give me ‘is justified’. i guess i’m just confused, i don’t know if theyre the abuser or if i’m the abuser or we both are. TLDR: me and my partner have both done awful, even abusive things fo each other. i can admit all the things i’ve done wrong, apologize, and genuinely try to change for the better. they won’t admit their mistakes, they invalidate my feelings, and shift all the blame on me. also they have BPD and ive been told theres a small chance i may too, which makes everything more complicated lol
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