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...See more ~I apologize right now for the long story, but there are alot of moving parts to this. Please comment any advice. Thanks!~ My current fiance and I have been dating for about 2 years. We began dating when I broke up with my ex. My ex and I dated for about 3 years (on and off). I moved 3 hours away and I felt like my ex did not support me enough. So I broke up with him and I began dating my current fiance. My fiance and I have been through alot. I love him with all my heart and I was excited for our future together. But my ex was still on my mind (not anymore). So I began texting my ex. I knew this would upset my fiance, but my ex was my best friend for 3 years. A realtionship like that is very hard to just let go. Like I figured, my fiance got really mad every time I would text my ex. (Yes, I know I am a horrible person. Just typing this hurts my stomach and heart. ) Now, 2 years later and many obstacles overcome, he feels exhausted. He isnt eating or sleeping. He says he loves me, and I love him. I dont talk to my ex anymore. At all. I cut off everyone who knew my ex. All I have left is my fiance. I'm scared of us breaking up because I love him so much. But I don't want to be the person who holds him back or hurts him anymore. I just don't know how I would move on from my soulmate. Please help. I'm struggling not to cry at work. Should we get counseling? Should I let him go? Should we keep trying? Please help.

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