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anonyTortoise3809
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Got cheated on...how do I move on?
Relationship Stress / by anonyTortoise3809
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 February 12th, 2019
...See more My boyfriend recently told me that he had cheated on me while drunk a few months ago... Ive come to know him so well and this is completely out of character. Hes been nothing but remorseful and I can see how much its been eating him up inside and I know in my heart he wants to fix everything and make it all fine....but I keep finding myself circling back to it, the thought of him with someone else keeps playing itself over and over in my mind and i know its not healthy for the both of us to continue dwelling on it. I dont want to break up because I knows hes better than that and there were a lot of things going on in his life that probably caused it all (I know thats no excuse) so I just dont know how to move past this because I want to have a future with him, weve created an inseparable bond. He really is my best friend and Ive been in enough relationships to know that he is nothing like the men Ive been with. I just need guidance.
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Relationship Stress / by anonyTortoise3809
Last post
 December 29th, 2017
...See more My boyfriend(21) and I(20) have been dating for over five & 1/2 years. Were currently in our third year of college where our schools are 5 hours apart. We are both collegiate athletes who are in season during the fall semester. Aside from that, he was pledging or whatever for a frat so I hadnt seen him for 4 months because of our schedule. The first time I saw him after this long stretch of time was Christmas. Nothing felt like it had changed but he did seem a little off to me. He wasnt being very touchy with me as usual and he didnt seem too into making conversation with me like he usually does. Leading up to seeing him, our text conversations didnt feel any different than they usually do. But the day after Christmas, he told me he felt like our vibe was off and that he didnt feel like our spark was there so the best solution to the problem I could think of was taking a break because it didnt sound like he wanted to be with me. He kept saying maybe we were outgrowing each other but I dont feel like thats it at all, weve already been in college for almost 3 years and nothing changed in that span but now suddenly it has. Ive been trying to plead my case to him about the worth of our relationship and he keeps telling me well talk about it later. But I cant sleep, cant eat, cant function. Id go into more detail with the lack of characters but please help me. Hes my best friend, my first love & he means the world to me. I dont know what to do.
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